Your negative characteristics or "flaws"

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03 Mar 2018, 5:27 pm

Just. Noticed most men in wp are from USA, while a majority of the women here are from uk, Australia or New Zealand, I wonder why thst is.



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03 Mar 2018, 5:31 pm

There are lots of Yank women here, too. Trust me....



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03 Mar 2018, 5:37 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
Gene Kelly is a famous actor and dancer who starred in the movie "Singin' in the Rain" about 1950.

I bet you would like that movie if you saw it.
I vaguely remember my grandma showing me the bit in the movie where he sings the title song, I don't think I've seen the rest of it though.


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03 Mar 2018, 7:30 pm

Okay, I'm going to contribute despite my earlier post.

I get way too jealous of couples. I think the main reason for it is the fact that I've never been in a relationship myself. At least it makes the most sense to me.


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04 Mar 2018, 1:12 am

before I learned to comprehend the charms of "Holland," I was not an especially pleasant person.



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04 Mar 2018, 9:37 pm

I often have difficulties understanding that some may find certain things I say offensive.

I can't manage to make any girl interested in me.

I always want to start writing or drawing but by the time I begin, I become burned out from my thoughts.



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04 Mar 2018, 9:51 pm

^^^^hiiiya EK :) welcome to WP 8)



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05 Mar 2018, 10:54 pm

DancingQueen wrote:
Unproductive af
Unemployed
Not great looking
Terrible at making conversation
In new relationships I tend to get scared and run away
Have been hurt before so very suspicious

But I'm nice :D


Not good looking - beauty or handsome is in the eye of the beholder. You got to have confidence.

Terrible at conversation is common here.
Need hurt and run from relationships. Smells like there interconnected.

Seeking Employments is a full time job right ?


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05 Mar 2018, 11:04 pm

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i often talk too much when i'm around people but i'm not really having a conversation while i very rarely feel interested in what they have to say but i just talk to fill the ambient and because i like what i have to say. i guess i could sum it in being narcissist??

also i don't know very well on how to have fun
and some days i don't take showers

i eat too much

i wonder if i can have genuine nice feelings towards people as im very critical

but i really like myself despite all of it


narcissist ? Maybe lack of humility, prideful, who knows right. Talking too much is a norm for us all. It could be also be an urge to kill silence.

To each there own idea of fun. Ive met many aspie with bad taste in humor.

Please take care of yourself and shower it affects the world. K

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"i wonder if i can have genuine nice feelings towards people as im very critical"

Typical for us all here. Nt s always wonder if were real, uber intelligent, or narcissist?


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05 Mar 2018, 11:11 pm

whatamievendoing wrote:
Okay, I'm going to contribute despite my earlier post.

I get way too jealous of couples. I think the main reason for it is the fact that I've never been in a relationship myself. At least it makes the most sense to me.


Im that right now but i get so depressed instead of anger. I broke off with my last ex 3 years ago. Feeling like eeyore with the ol thunder cloud above me often

Thanks for adding.

Talking about our neg flaws here in a non judgement zone is a good thing !


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05 Mar 2018, 11:12 pm

Theamazinggeek wrote:
ltcvnzl wrote:
i often talk too much when i'm around people but i'm not really having a conversation while i very rarely feel interested in what they have to say but i just talk to fill the ambient and because i like what i have to say. i guess i could sum it in being narcissist??

also i don't know very well on how to have fun
and some days i don't take showers

i eat too much

i wonder if i can have genuine nice feelings towards people as im very critical

but i really like myself despite all of it


narcissist ? Maybe lack of humility, prideful, who knows right. Talking too much is a norm for us all. It could be also be an urge to kill silence.

To each there own idea of fun. Ive met many aspie with bad taste in humor.

Please take care of yourself and shower it affects the world. K

Lastly
"i wonder if i can have genuine nice feelings towards people as im very critical"

Typical for us all here. Nt s always wonder if were real, uber intelligent, or narcissist?



it's not many days without showering so i would get smelly but sometimes i skip a day, mostly when i'm depressed so i actually don't even leave the house during those periods.

also having fun isn't exactly about humor i just don't know to enjoy things? i don't know
i see people go to party or have hobbies i don't know if i really like anything and i don't know how to have leisure time



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05 Mar 2018, 11:15 pm

Elektromagnetische Koning wrote:
I often have difficulties understanding that some may find certain things I say offensive.

I can't manage to make any girl interested in me.

I always want to start writing or drawing but by the time I begin, I become burned out from my thoughts.


This is all norm. Its common to have communication issues.

Yeah im have trouble with women too. I feel like a bachelor forever

Thoughts burn. Easily aspie or adhd. Your definently in the club


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05 Mar 2018, 11:21 pm

unrelieved anhedonia will kill ya.



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06 Mar 2018, 12:14 am

auntblabby wrote:
unrelieved anhedonia will kill ya.


Thats random


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09 Mar 2018, 6:48 pm

I can't do simple things others take for granted, even though I'm university educated.
I'm not attractive.
I have unusual interests, not in type for a female, but definitely in focus and intensity.
I have an interest in a tennis player most people haven't heard of.
I get anxious and sometimes have panic attacks.



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09 Mar 2018, 7:12 pm

even as a hermit out in the woods, I somehow can't avoid disappointing people. :alien: