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16 Feb 2018, 8:02 pm
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How did he get such an attractive girlfriend when he's just 18. When I was that age I was a decade away from getting a girlfriend.
And where did he find such a smoking hot girlfriend? My last girlfriend looked Rose Tico if she spent six months in the buffet on Canto Bight.
A lot of the time it's just luck and timing. Something as simple as your cousin having this hot girl in his highschool class being in same classroom as him might be the clincher.
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16 Feb 2018, 8:11 pm
How did he get such an attractive girlfriend when he's just 18. When I was that age I was a decade away from getting a girlfriend.
And where did he find such a smoking hot girlfriend? My last girlfriend looked Rose Tico if she spent six months in the buffet on Canto Bight.
A lot of the time it's just luck and timing. Something as simple as your cousin having this hot girl in his highschool class being in same classroom as him might be the clincher.
I think you're right about timing. They started going together when he was about 17. So yeah, he probably did have her in his high school class.
Timing is a factor in this because he started dating when he was in high school. I started dating when I was 25. He was in an environment with a lot of girls who were the same age as him. I'm in an environment which is mostly full of middle aged people who are about 20 years older than me (my work).
The one thing my cousin and I have in common is that we're both introverted. We don't spontaneously go out to parties and things. But he didn't have to push himself into social situations because, being a high school student he was surrounded by same aged people. For me, I have to push myself into uncomfortable social situations to meet same aged people and even then there's only a chance that I'll meet my next SO there. To increase my chances I'd have to push myself into many different uncomfortable social situations.
So you're right. It's all about timing. If you want to have good timing, start dating when you're about 17 years old. Otherwise timing will work against you.
16 Feb 2018, 8:12 pm
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16 Feb 2018, 8:54 pm
Where'd you get the idea that "working on your insides" has nothing to do with added charm and appeal?
You sounds sort of down at the moment.
Yeah, I guess I'm sort of down. Maybe because it's the weekend. Weekends are so boring. There's nothing to do on the weekend.
I guess I could get a hobby or learn another language or learn a skill or take a class or build something but if I commit to something then I'll feel like I have no free time.
I hate free time yet I resent its absence. Maybe I should just get a weekend job. At least then I can pretend that I'm a badass workaholic. Working 7 days per week is less depressing than just sitting around all weekend, right?
Or maybe I could just go back to my old hobby of buying hundreds of video games and never playing any of them
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16 Feb 2018, 8:59 pm
^^^at least if you work the weekend extra-job, you'll have more money to invest and eventually richen your retirement years with. 
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16 Feb 2018, 9:01 pm
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