JS1000 wrote:
How can I make myself attractive to NT women?
1) Being kind, positive, secure with yourself and a healthy dose of confidence helps a lot.
2) Appearance. Get a good haircut, wear clothes that fit you, hygiene, grooming, get in shape, etc. (If you're using dating apps, put time into taking great pics)
3) It's not enough to just look good. You need to also put effort into meeting people, introducing yourself, holding conversation, etc. (It's not realistic to just expect women to throw themselves at you just because you look good. You still need to put in effort. As a guy who is shy, this is something I had to work on. Take an interest in their life, take an interest in their hobbies, ask them questions, etc.
4) You don't have to please everyone. Instead of trying to please people who don't like you, play to your strengths and try to be an awesome partner for the person that will like you. Some people will be attracted to you. Many won't. But if you talk to lots of people, you'll eventually people who are. If someone isn't into you, just move on and talk to other people - instead of trying to please people who don't like you.
5) Try not to generalize people based on AS or NT. Try to get to know them as a person and who they are as an individual. Rather than based on what you expect all NT people to be like.