How do you demonstrate interest in someone?

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05 Jan 2024, 4:37 pm

Flirt.

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05 Jan 2024, 6:25 pm

I burp and fart.

I don’t burp and fart around just anyone, just the special people in my life. :heart:

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07 Jan 2024, 1:15 pm

Or more succinctly:

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07 Jan 2024, 1:45 pm

:lol:

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07 Jan 2024, 3:37 pm

If it's almost Valentine's day then I like to use 'So, almost Valentine's. Do you usually have plans this time of year / any cool plans?'

Most of the time this is taken as just making small talk. What I'm indirectly asking is 'are you single?'

It's not a direct show of interest but the response can be useful information.

'Do you like / listen to (particular LGBT musicians)?'

What I'm trying to gauge here is how the person feels about LGBT topics and if I'm safe to proceed. Usually people catch on to this pretty quickly. Some even give a smile or a laugh and say 'Yes, I'm not straight' because they're aware that's what I'm trying to figure out.

Particularly funny if you both ask the same question at the same time because then it's just:

:lol:

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08 Jan 2024, 5:00 am

I learned from the show "Friends". I say or text "How you doin' :wink: ?" lol

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08 Jan 2024, 10:53 am

Get them a cat or five.

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08 Jan 2024, 7:55 pm

Mime their movements.

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29 Feb 2024, 5:14 pm

I ask them if they would like to hand feed my snakes.

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29 Feb 2024, 5:19 pm

I wipe my stink on them. :nerdy:

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29 Feb 2024, 5:20 pm

How do you do that? :lol:

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29 Feb 2024, 5:20 pm

funeralxempire wrote:

I wipe my stink on them. :nerdy:

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TwilightPrincess wrote:

How do you do that? :lol:

It depends on how cooperative they are.

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29 Feb 2024, 5:31 pm

That makes sense.

To express interest, I usually ignore people and respond monosyllabically to any question they might ask. I feel like this makes me mysterious.

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