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I was reading something on Facebook about the 2 different types of sexual desire, Spontaneous Desire and Responsive Desire
I realize that I would most likely fall under the "spontaneous desire" category based on the fact that in order to initiate sex I would want to push a man against the wall and make out with him 
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I realize that I would most likely fall under the "spontaneous desire" category based on the fact that in order to initiate sex I would want to push a man against the wall and make out with him
I think most people fall between those two extremes.
I feel like if someone who caught your fancy pushed you against a wall you'd have plenty of responsive desire.
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08 Mar 2024, 9:44 pm
I realize that I would most likely fall under the "spontaneous desire" category based on the fact that in order to initiate sex I would want to push a man against the wall and make out with him
I think most people fall between those two extremes.
I feel like if someone who caught your fancy pushed you against a wall you'd have plenty of responsive desire.
Yeah even though I have never had sex I still desire it!
When I was in Robbie's storage shed at his house and we were making out he pushed me against the wall and put his tongue in my mouth
I guess at that point you could say he had responsive and spontaneous desire!
But for something like that it would most likely fall under "spontaneous desire" category because you would be caught completely off-guard by the person's actions
The way I understand it Responsive Desire refers to having sexual desire that isn't on-the-fly or dynamic and Spontaneous Desire refers to having sexual desire that is spur-of-the-moment and dynamic without any thought put into it
An example they put on the website is that having scheduled sex sessions to try and have a child would be "responsive desire" while someone running up to you immediately kissing and pushing you against the wall would be "spontaneous desire"!
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I realize that I would most likely fall under the "spontaneous desire" category based on the fact that in order to initiate sex I would want to push a man against the wall and make out with him
I think most people fall between those two extremes.
I feel like if someone who caught your fancy pushed you against a wall you'd have plenty of responsive desire.
Yeah even though I have never had sex I still desire it!
When I was in Robbie's storage shed at his house and we were making out he pushed me against the wall and put his tongue in my mouth
I guess at that point you could say he had responsive and spontaneous desire!
But for something like that it would most likely fall under "spontaneous desire" category because you would be caught completely off-guard by the person's actions
The way I understand it Responsive Desire refers to having sexual desire that isn't on-the-fly or dynamic and Spontaneous Desire refers to having sexual desire that is spur-of-the-moment and dynamic without any thought put into it
An example they put on the website is that having scheduled sex sessions to try and have a child would be "responsive desire" while someone running up to you immediately kissing and pushing you against the wall would be "spontaneous desire"!
Ah, I was taking responsive and spontaneous a bit more literally.
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Before engaging in shower sex (what I refer to is an Advanced Technique of sex) I have to start fully-clothed laying on top of each other kissing and hugging until I am ready to move to the next phase
Unless you'd find it easier to shower with someone than to get naked specifically to have sex. Showering requires being naked and sometimes things just go from there.
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08 Mar 2024, 11:49 pm
Before engaging in shower sex (what I refer to is an Advanced Technique of sex) I have to start fully-clothed laying on top of each other kissing and hugging until I am ready to move to the next phase
Unless you'd find it easier to shower with someone than to get naked specifically to have sex. Showering requires being naked and sometimes things just go from there.
Not necessarily
I may not have to get fully undressed to get in the shower with another person unless I am actually taking a shower
But like I said in order to get to that point I MUST start with taking baby steps and do everything incrementally!
So basically:
Start with the heavy kissing & making out----------------------> Move to the bedroom (or whereever we decide to have sex)---------------------> Lay on bed without getting fully naked (1st time)-----------------> Eventually once comfortable with the person and your/their body GET FULLY NAKED!! !
I know what to do
Now it's just a matter of Jonathan or Jesse or someone else asking me to be his girlfriend then spending the night at his house then...?!?
Right now the conditions aren't right to engage in sex!
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