What do women look for in a male body?
That's not nice and not true. Some of the fussiest and most high self-esteem women (in terms of going for someone above their "level") seem to be ones not beautiful in a conventional sense, especially heavy women.
But true enough that women, like men, don't all like the same thing. The woman at my workplace I am the most infatuated with (in an innocent way, since I'm already taken) is someone most guys consider very homely. Bad skin, no makeup, droopy eyelid on one side, mediocre clothes, but I'm so taken by the beauty I see there, and her smile and intelligence. Too bad she seems depressed or completely uninterested in guys (or anyone, I don't think she's gay either). She might be an Aspie. And she certainly doesn't seem to consider herself desperate or "not fussy."
My husband tells me that I have high expectations
I don't get it.. I don't expect presents or material benefits.. I don't expect him to work full time.. I don't expect him to cook.. I don't even expect him to take a shower more than once a week (which he doesn't)
I expect him to be capable of taking care of important things when needed and I expect him want to have sex with me and I expect him to put my needs before his own when the two clash (I always put his first when I can but sometimes I need things too) I'd also like it if he could pick up the house on his day off (while I work full time) and try to avoid calling me profane names.
Some girls expect less than that?
I may be generalizing so correct me if I'm wrong or if there is an acception this rule.
I have a weakness for women who look certain ways, but it's not necessarily conforming to the "fertility" norm (some of it is more fashion than fertility anyway). There are some plenty who I've found attractive in quite a shallow sense, due to their appearance, but not because of their breasts or even the structure of their face, more just because they look like someone I'd like to be around.
So if I'm anything to go by appearance is what comes first, but not necessarily as predictable as you seem to make out. I mean, some of the men have mentioned glasses, I can relate and that doesn't have to do with fertility per se.
That's not nice and not true. Some of the fussiest and most high self-esteem women (in terms of going for someone above their "level") seem to be ones not beautiful in a conventional sense, especially heavy women.
But true enough that women, like men, don't all like the same thing. The woman at my workplace I am the most infatuated with (in an innocent way, since I'm already taken) is someone most guys consider very homely. Bad skin, no makeup, droopy eyelid on one side, mediocre clothes, but I'm so taken by the beauty I see there, and her smile and intelligence. Too bad she seems depressed or completely uninterested in guys (or anyone, I don't think she's gay either). She might be an Aspie. And she certainly doesn't seem to consider herself desperate or "not fussy."
Its true, hot girls are quickly dettered.
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Perhaps some ugly women arent fussy because they are trying to be realistic about what they can actually have as well as what they really want.
obviously.
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I wonder why myself and other men find scars and cellulite repulsive and prefer soft, smooth skin (ideally without blemishes)....
Or several surgeries. All of my scars are from operations.
Ooh wait....I do have two scars from three separate poision spider bites. But that's about it.
I wonder why myself and other men find scars and cellulite repulsive and prefer soft, smooth skin (ideally without blemishes)....
Because you're men?
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I don't get it.. I don't expect presents or material benefits.. I don't expect him to work full time.. I don't expect him to cook.. I don't even expect him to take a shower more than once a week (which he doesn't)
I expect him to be capable of taking care of important things when needed and I expect him want to have sex with me and I expect him to put my needs before his own when the two clash (I always put his first when I can but sometimes I need things too) I'd also like it if he could pick up the house on his day off (while I work full time) and try to avoid calling me profane names.
Some girls expect less than that?
I think he should stop complaining. It sounds like he has it better than he knows.
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I wonder why myself and other men find scars and cellulite repulsive and prefer soft, smooth skin (ideally without blemishes)....
On each other? Or women? Women have more neotenic features, supposedly to incite a caring nature in their men (the leftovers of being primarily polygamous apes, which I guess we still are). Soft features also mean a woman is younger, and therefore healthier and more viable. At least that's what I assume the logic is.
Or several surgeries. All of my scars are from operations.
Ooh wait....I do have two scars from three separate poision spider bites. But that's about it.
Heh, well, see above. I think women are more likely to get scars through surgery. Knock on wood I don't have a single on yet, just tiny nicks here and there. I'm sure it's a matter of time.
I don't mind scars on women, though. Surgery scars are pretty specific -- my friend has one from a surgery, I don't think it's bad. They're also good conversation starters.
Hahah, and then I'm reminded of the Aspie-seeming beauty contestant from the Minnesota mockumentary Drop Dead Gorgeous; "They remade my belly with skin from my butt!" [pulls up shirt for all to see]
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The very same thing happend to me!
It ended adout a year ago, I fell in love with a frind of mine (hes's fat and not very attractive...) and we dated and lived together for about a year. But in my case I can definitely say that it as bad sex that killed it...
At the beggining I convinced my self (even befor I started dating him) that he is the guy for me, and if I can't make it with him I can't make it...
But, the sex was bad... and I mean bad, and gradually he started to get on my nerves, and I started to hate every thing about him...
I didn't marry him though, luckily
What was attractive about their personalities??
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