what makes you most annoyed socally

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What makes me annoyed is that i will call people and they dont call me back

This is why I don't bother using answering machines (and I always blank out anyway). They never freaking call back!

But I'd have to say smalltalk.

Mine is when people make plans without warning me at least a day before.

At the movie theatre when the movie is on. people in front of me would stand up and stay standing for a prolonged period of time and go through their bag or purse standing up not caring that others are trying to watch the movie....yet it would have been unacceptable if I were to ask them to have consideration for others....then on top of that someone;s kid starts screaming...I just moved to another seat....crouching along the way so I don't block anyone while moving and not saying a word.

touching/nudging me in any way. Yeah I can be considered tactile defensive in response to it, and I have hurt people because of it, punching the toucher in the face for example. Luckily I haven't done that in a while, but I think that has more to do with people just not touching me.

I hate when people say they're going to do something and they don't. I find that really annoying.

This silly social rule of: I must be nice to people if thier in a good mood and extra nice to them if thier in a grumpy mood, and if im in a bad mood then others can be in a bad mood too and in a bad mood if im in a good one geez..

Also this social expectation that as a trainee Nursery nurse that I am going to automatically be sociable and a real charmer when it comes to small talk with parents, I can see why its expected but its still annoying when people expect you to naturally do something and are dissapointed when its not that way.

Long goodbyes among groups, where each person has to hug each and every other person and make chit-chat with each person while saying goodbye, then stand around in a loose group for a while instead of just LEAVING.

People who say they are going to meet you at a certain place at a certain time and then don't show up.

People who say they like something just to impress you.

People who are nice to my face but then b***h to others about how much of weird psycho freak I am and that I shouldn't be trusted.

When I'm asked to pick out a film to watch, or where to go for lunch or something like that - I always think I'll make the wrong choice and that I'll get the piss taken out of me for it.

When strangers strike up conversation based on a band t-shirt I'm wearing.

When I'm with a friend and he or she bumps into some people they know and they talk about something I can't join in with and feel like an idiot for standing there being silent. Awkward!

I hate it when people form cliques, then tell inside jokes and make plans among themselves right in front of you.

Socially, if I'm in a group and they put the spotlight on me.. I freeze and can't utter words. If home, then probably answering the phone. Also, If I go out for an appt I haveto know a month ahead of time. Sometimes I'll go with a week ahead, but if it's like a day ahead or something I'll go into a autistic mode and have the worst panic attacks.

When people just talk to me like I'm NT and I automatically understand everything.