People who mess about with you
Nick88
Yellow-bellied Woodpecker
Joined: 5 Aug 2011
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 57
Location: Grafty Green - Middle of Nowhere
Don't you hate it when someone is joking with you , but it annoys you so much that you feel you want to knock them out. Does anyone else get this?. I had this on Thursday when someone was trying to be funny with me , but i had a surge of frustration and i thought he was taking the piss out of me.
just walk away
tell the person its not funny
change the subject
and yes i know where your comming from, im just really good at being a bigger a-hole then that person
Holy moley i can relate...
Like when a friend thinks its funny to hide your wallet from you then completely forgets where he hid it... when the contents of the wallet add up to a 4 digit number...
Or jokingly holds your very important signed paperwork out the car window...
Both examples ive had this week, and both i specifically said DO NOT DO under any circumstance... dont touch the paperwork... dont touch the wallet ... INFURIATING... there comes a time where enough is enough...
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You know de rewls
I've been getting this my whole life. I'm fairly sure the frustration (which is followed by violent urges) is a result of not being able to defend yourself verbally. When I first started secondary school (when I was around 13) there was a small number of people who messed with me like this. They made it out like they were joking but they were still disrespecting me so I didn't like it. I couldn't defend myself with words so I used my fists instead. I fought every one of them and it turned out that I was a pretty good fighter. The only reason people stopped messing with me after that was fear though, not respect. My friends respected me but people who didn't know me just knew I had a reputation. The older people in the school still messed with me and I fought some of them but since they're way bigger than me I couldn't win any of them. I put up good fights though and I did earn a fair bit of respect for having the balls to do it. Unfortunately as an adult I can't use my fists anymore so I'm once again defenseless. I can defend myself against people who directly talk s**t but against sly people who mess with me in subtle, insidious ways I'm pretty defenseless.
What's the matter?
Relax.
You look uncomfortable.
Lighten up.
etc.
Yep, this is what I'm talking about. I manage my emotions well and I never let things bother me so it pisses me off when people assume that theres I'm depressed/worried about something as if I can't just deal with whatevers bothering me and get over it. Its condescending and disrespectful of them. I have my weaknesses but this is definitely not where they lie, its quite the opposite, I manage my emotional states very well. If theres something causing me negative emotions, I identify it and resolve it.
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