It's not okay to judge someone negatively based on how they look.
Imo it's also not okay to judge someone positively based on how they look. I constantly hear people say "you're very tall" as if I didn't know that. They think it's a compliment but I hate being tall and even if I didn't, I've already heard it ten times today. I don't want people commenting on my body regardless of intention.
Sorry that was a digression but my point is no, no one should judge you based on your body even if they mean well, which usually they don't.
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Diagnosed ASD/ADHD age 5. Finally understood that age 17.
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