Physical and Sexual Attraction
heh, I'm completely different.
I remember trying to become asexual because I thought I would never have sex. I couldn't do it. I think about sex too much lol. Still haven't had sex, but I don't think I'm going to have a particularly low libido by any means
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I remember trying to become asexual because I thought I would never have sex. I couldn't do it. I think about sex too much lol. Still haven't had sex, but I don't think I'm going to have a particularly low libido by any means
I suppose your avatar is very appropriate then.
I remember trying to become asexual because I thought I would never have sex. I couldn't do it. I think about sex too much lol. Still haven't had sex, but I don't think I'm going to have a particularly low libido by any means
I suppose your avatar is very appropriate then.
Very much so
(that bottle scene - .....shes very hot lol)
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I was wondering if anyone else has or has had this and what their experiences have been with it.
I would say I am the opposite of this. I don't like being touched, hugged, or kissed ever outside of a sexual experience. I do desire sex, but in most of my relationships, I've had many complaints of not doing it or initiating it enough.
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I was wondering if anyone else has or has had this and what their experiences have been with it.
I would say I am the opposite of this. I don't like being touched, hugged, or kissed ever outside of a sexual experience. I do desire sex, but in most of my relationships, I've had many complaints of not doing it or initiating it enough.
I LOVE being touched, hugged, and kissed (when I'm not in shutdown mode. Different story, then.) but hate it in the context of sex.
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Your sexuality and intimacy may simply run in a different course, you also may some repression issues too. I have known a couple of ASD people who thought they were asexual or something along those lines because they were basically told that being the way they were made it so they wouldn't be in relationships or do anything or even that sex was bad, in one case the guy was disciplined when he became unintentionally aroused when he hit puberty.
I'd make sure its not simply "different course" or repression before you definitely give yourself an asexual label. I'm definitely not by a mile, but I had issues with physical touch and such myself too and sex actually got me around them oddly enough (even made it easier for me to shake peoples hand, etc).
In the end you should be allowed to be comfortable with who you are, maybe just hugging and kissing is enough.
Sexuality and intimacy should be discussed frankly, maybe even with a professional or maybe just a good friend who deeply understands human sexuality on an academic level.
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I'd make sure its not simply "different course" or repression before you definitely give yourself an asexual label. I'm definitely not by a mile, but I had issues with physical touch and such myself too and sex actually got me around them oddly enough (even made it easier for me to shake peoples hand, etc).
In the end you should be allowed to be comfortable with who you are, maybe just hugging and kissing is enough.
Sexuality and intimacy should be discussed frankly, maybe even with a professional or maybe just a good friend who deeply understands human sexuality on an academic level.
I was never told any such thing about relationships or sex- of the three or four people I know, none of them think I even have Aspergers. Nor was I ever indoctrinated with ideas of sex = bad. I call myself asexual because I am- I have no primary sexual attraction to people, and am unsure/doubtful if I experience it secondarily, so averse as I am to penetrative acts.
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