ToadOfSteel wrote:
From what I've been gathering, most people don't see dates as meaningfully as we do. It might as well just be going out with a friend, nothing more. I've had contention with such definitions, but do know that that's how the rest of the world sees it.
I worry about this when "dating". I haven't had a relationship in years but have started "dating" this guy (first time dating at all in yrs really). He's probably on the spectrum, so I can only hope he has similar views to myself... But having learned the appalling nature of 'some' guys firsthand... I feel half afraid to ask particular things (I don't wanna come across as crazy either).
But I am trying to just enjoy nice slow and fun. It's hard though cause I love to be obsessed... It's hard to separate that from the things I like.
But I am content with the giddiness