Have u ever felt affection towards an aspie on Wrong planet?

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Or in real life?

By affection i mean attracted.

I'm just curious.

where is your option for " Yes, but they ended up ignoring me....."

Whaha,

Yes

I even had something with one WP member once, but it was complicated

Yes, but friendly affection. I don't do long distance relationships.

I did not know this was in the LGTB forum....was wondering why those were the only options..........didnt even know there was a LGBT forum........

There are certainly people on WP that I have respect for, and those whose "converstation" that I enjoy, but this has not developed into any attraction.

That's not to say that attraction requires face-to-face communication--I have certainly been infatuated with people that I know on the internet in other contexts--but so far I have not developed a strong enough relationship with anyone on the board for that to present itself as a possibility.

I would think that there would need to be a few factors in place before an attraction would develop on my part for a person I knew only on the internet:

1) Another gay male (a bit obvious, but it does narrow the potential pool considerably)

2) An established pattern of one-on-one communication. Posts on forum threads does not provide a sufficient basis, and even the exchange of PMs lacks immediacy.

3) A body of mutually shared interests beyond sexual orientation. It's not enough that he's a gay man. (It's not even enough that he's a hot, gay man). Absent a "click" that goes beyond the physiological, I'm simply not going to be attracted to him.

(Though substitute "aroused by" for "attracted to" and we could be having a totally different conversation about people on the internet!)

Yes, there are at least three guys here I'm feeling quite attracted to at the moment.
Ho hum. We live in hope, etc. etc.

Are u being sarcastic?

Yes.
Not in a sexual way though.

God no, or at least I didn't mean to sound like I was.
It's a bit tiring living the life of a Trappist Monk sometimes, and having someone special around would be nice.

Ow oke, idem ditto.

Enkele leuke jongens hier!

Ik weet het niet, het is vaag.

Wat, mijn slechte Nederlands of de jongens?