auntblabby wrote:
when i was younger and prettier, i was made aware of the feeling, of being seen as a piece of meat and nothing more. at least the dancers were getting reasonably well-paid for being seen as meat.
That was my feeling as well. If someone's into that, more power to them, but I'm not. I'm sure every place is different, but there was far too much touching in the places I've been to. For someone who doesn't like to be touched, that was very not cool. When I complained about this afterwards, people told me I should expect that and shouldn't go to them if I didn't like it.
I'm not into any culture anyway. It's just not me.
If straight people go to them, are they still gay bars?