nick007 wrote:
Bopkasen wrote:
nick007 wrote:
When I'm talking or chatting with girls that I'm not interested in(especially young teen girls online) I tend to flirt with em. It comes naturally to me when I'm just wanting to be friendly & I'm NOT trying or wanting to flirt. I have to watch what I say because I don't want to be flirting but when I like a girl & I want to flirt; it comes out very WRONG. It's problematic for me because I scare off girls I do like by sounding mentally retorted when I try flirting. & I also scare away girls I only want to be friends with by flirting with em when I'm NOT wanting to. I wish I could flirt when I want to & didn't flirt when I'm simply trying to be nice
Flirting with teens that are younger than the state legal limit is wrong. You should not talks to them at all if they aren't related to you. It is pointless and plain wasteful.
What will looks like to father, mother, and other teens is that you are preying on them.
As i already stated; I watch what I say with em. The last two post are NOT helpful because I flirt with women around my age offline when I feel comfortable with em. The problem is that it comes naturally to me when I feel comfortable & trying to be nice
what Bopkasen and others are trying to tell you is that is not a good idea to try to be nice to underage girls by chatting with them online - essentially, stay away. their parents will not understand your intentions and you can get branded as a lot of bad things even if the talk is not sexual in nature.
there is not much reason to be chatting with them online. if you look hard, you can find older women or men to chat with online that have similar interests to you. they may not be as prevalent or as easy to find, but it would probably be a good idea to look. you are on a slippery slope.
addendum: another useful bit... i have a teenage daughter. if she was talking to an older man online, i would hit the roof. and if that man was flirting with her, i would assume he was trying to have sex with her, or at least sexual conversations. not appropriate.
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