Hmm... I'm not sure about my sexuality.

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Partly because I've never actually had sex, I'm not completely sure whether I fancy girls as well as boys. I DEFINITELY fancy boys, but at the same time, occasionally I see a girl and think "Wow, she's beautiful," in a fancying kind of way. I admit I can't look at Emma Watson or Angelina Jolie without thinking this.

Is it normal for bisexuals to fancy many members of one gender and only fancy a select few of the other gender?

Yes. Sexuality is far more fluid than most people think, anyways. Most people, no matter how they identify themselves, occasionally desire both sexes. They just never talk about it because sex in general is still an awkward subject. I go for the same sex most of the time, but am occasionally attracted to the opposite sex. I therefore tend to avoid terms like "gay" because I find it misleading.

I'd look at it this way:
I'm gay, but I don't fancy absolutely everything male wearing jeans because of that.
Straight people doubtless don't fancy every single specimen of the opposite sex either.
Therefore, I wouldn't expect bisexuals to fancy every specimen of either sex either.

As lotuspuppy said, it's fluid - even within one type preference.

I'm kinda like you.

When I see a beautiful girl I can enjoy her beauty. I can think, she's sexy I can think, this would be a good woman to be my baby momma. This girl will impress the other men.

OK, now you've put it that way it makes more sense. Thanks.