25 and never had a girlfriend

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looks like there are abunch of asexual people on this site or we are all sterotypical nerds . Im 21 and straight but really had a girlfriend (exept when i was 11 for a while ) and have never had sex with a girl ( or a guy for that matter ) though i DID play naughty games with that one girl (oh no i must be a molester for playing docter as a kid ! !!) . I tend to be distant from people because they tend to be distant from me . I also thought that i was bi sexual for a while but it turned out that I merely admitted that other guys looked hansom , no actual sexual desires for them though but i was afraid that it might turn into something gay and it would consume me slowly turning me into that kid from Glee ( you know , the gay one ) . I never really HATED gays but they scared me because I thought that they were goning to bite me and I would join the Legons of the Unstraight or somehow might get infected by Gaydiation or something like that , but now that I know that you cant be turned gay and its not something that people just "become " due to exposure to gay people or you might just fall in love with a dude or something ,its a hormonal INBALANCE of estrogen in male babies .TOTATLLY IRRELEVANT

I think in general, women think guys want a virgin, and they know there's a way to tell. And women are usually ashamed of sexual experience.

Guys are usually accepting of a woman who has sexual experience, even to the point of marriage.



Yes. Don't want dating/sex, don't care about it.



A lot of people have never had gay friends. It's interesting to be hit on, as a guy. I would take it the same way we expect a woman to. Enjoy the interaction, delay sex, don't get too romantic unless you're interested.

Yes, that's my advice to straight men. Cures the fear right up.



If someone decided they wanted to become gay, I think it's possible. I think the biological tendency is usually to favor the opposite gender.

That's your problem. You are f*****g waiting all the time. I used to be just like you and it is really painful to watch.

I'm 25 and I haven't even had so much as a phone number from a girl.

I'm ugly, slow, stupid, half-retarded, uneducated, un-charismatic, talentless, and a pathetic bum that can't do the simplest stuff.

I can't drive, I'm poor, I don't how to bathe, and I can barely take care of myself. (this is while living at home) I dropped out of special ed after repeating the 9th twice. I am a hermit with no friends, and an inferior loser that will always be alone.

I shouldn't even be alive right now

Too bad that you are slow too, you cannot even reap someone

tb86, I am 41 in California and have never had a girlfriend. You are definitely not alone and I wish you the best because I would not want you to do another 16+ years after that like I did.

Rodland, did you seriously just express regret that MR20 is slow.... because he can't catch someone... to rape them?

I am 21 and, honestly, never had the guts to approach a girl. The few who approached me were either: a) not my type, b) lost interest because of my shyness or c) either lost interest or were accidentaly ditched by me because I did not realize their interest at the time.

I do not this situation will ever change, and I cannot say the thought does not bother me, but I have more important things to worry about. Career and material wealth, for example.

I don't know about that, but I'm surely too slow to catch someone to rape them.

This except for the career and material wealth part, I don't care about that.

I'm too lazy/afraid (I can never decide) to change this and I've stopped beating myself up over it. If it happens, it happens, if not, c'est la vie.