What do you believe makes you unattractive to others?

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Northeastern292
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03 Feb 2013, 2:54 pm

I say too much, say stupid things in public at times, don't know how to initiate a relationship (friendships included), etc.



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03 Feb 2013, 4:02 pm

- Being 5 ft 2 (For women with height requirements)

-Shy/socially awkward

-Somewhat skinny



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04 Feb 2013, 12:47 am

My entire appearance? Especially my nose, which is crooked and has a bump. My best friend swears I'm not ugly, just unapproachable. My social awkwardness is probably unattractive. Being smart is probably a turn-off to guys who like to be smarter than the girls they date. Being blunt. Being shy and not that outgoing.



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04 Feb 2013, 1:55 am

Everything!


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04 Feb 2013, 2:08 am

i have an abrupt manner.
my voice is haughty some say.
my lack of affection.
my lack of involvement with other peoples conversation.
my tendency to talk about only what i am interested in.
my tendency to ignore compliments.
my failure to give compliments.
my failure to console people who are sad.
my indifference to things that happen outside my local experience.
my lack of enthusiasm to follow up offers of friendship.
my failure to ask questions about other people.
etc etc...



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04 Feb 2013, 3:47 am

You're excused, Boo. :lol:

As for my list:

Bad mechanical skills. Which means I can't fix anything for sh*t and I'm just an average driver.
Would not make a good manager of money.
I suck at romance.
Gets emotionally and socially drained a bit too quickly depending on the circumstances.
My sense of fashion isn't the best.

That's what I can think of for now.



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04 Feb 2013, 5:11 am

The fact that I exist!


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04 Feb 2013, 9:27 am

Nothing. I'm very attractive. If you look like Mick Avory, give me a call at 1-964-Kink. :wink:


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04 Feb 2013, 9:36 am

Too much. Mentally and physically deformed package.. which has led to a very jaded and cynical almost 35-year-old. I avoid people (or humans as I refer to them) as much as possible to remove the attraction issue. People are confusing and exhausting to the extreme. This is one of the few places I can speak honestly from the heart and have a higher percentage rate of being taken the correct way.



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04 Feb 2013, 11:01 am

Having no money.


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04 Feb 2013, 11:30 am

- Boring.
- Strange sense of humor.
- Too mature for my age.
- Long hair (Yes, don't think you'll date someone if you have long hair in France. Sometimes I hate my country :).)
- I listen to Metal.
- And according to some people, being a "ret*d".
- Not materialistic enough.



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04 Feb 2013, 11:48 am

I'm too shy and insecure
My weight
My looks
I'm too old fashioned and prude lol
I'm boring
I'm a crazy cat lady



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04 Feb 2013, 2:30 pm

Ahh bring it on, more delicious negative energy!!



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04 Feb 2013, 4:05 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ahh bring it on, more delicious negative energy!!


Your thread is more successful than mine, it seems.



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04 Feb 2013, 5:30 pm

-People think I'm younger than I actually am.

-I rarely smile.

-My weight.

-I don't dress "cool."

-I'm socially awkward.


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04 Feb 2013, 6:13 pm

MCalavera wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Ahh bring it on, more delicious negative energy!!


Your thread is more successful than mine, it seems.


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