Why do women care so much about a mans height?

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24 Oct 2017, 9:58 am

Why yes there is.......

Oops, wrong one. Here it is.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/science ... finds.html


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24 Oct 2017, 10:02 am

^ Isn't that an article about meteor showers? 8O

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I think guys around my height (5'8 > 5'10) or slightly less should try Cowboy Boots. They might help you a bit to feel better than wearing flats.

That's exactly the attitude though - why should short dudes feel badly about being short, and try anything to look taller? Because being shorter is inherently bad, they should dislike it, and want to be taller? What's wrong with just being a short dude?
I wonder how this attitude would view short dudes who actually like being short dudes.


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24 Oct 2017, 10:07 am

C2V wrote:
^ Isn't that an article about meteor showers? 8O
Sometime World wrote:
I think guys around my height (5'8 > 5'10) or slightly less should try Cowboy Boots. They might help you a bit to feel better than wearing flats.

That's exactly the attitude though - why should short dudes feel badly about being short, and try anything to look taller? Because being shorter is inherently bad, they should dislike it, and want to be taller? What's wrong with just being a short dude?
I wonder how this attitude would view short dudes who actually like being short dudes.


I found the right article and replaced the meteor shower stuff. :mrgreen:


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24 Oct 2017, 10:47 am

At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.



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24 Oct 2017, 1:59 pm

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I think people assume short men are weak characters and can't handle themselves? Have you not noticed a large portion of women assume tall men can "kick ass" and handle themselves even if they are spindly?


The female need for tall men has its origins in intra-male conflict and dominance struggles.


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24 Oct 2017, 4:25 pm

I simply cleaned up my fb from persons who are insignificant in my life.





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24 Oct 2017, 5:30 pm

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At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.

Women want the whole package. It’s not they only want a guy tall or they want a well off guy. They want it all. They want the Prince Charming, tall, handsome, fit, athletic, good paid job, car and home. Who also likes everything they like.



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24 Oct 2017, 5:39 pm

sly279 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.

Women want the whole package. It’s not they only want a guy tall or they want a well off guy. They want it all. They want the Prince Charming, tall, handsome, fit, athletic, good paid job, car and home. Who also likes everything they like.


I don't think so, because I've known some girls who date some average-looking guys who are living on welfare checks, and who are shorter than me, and with different tastes than the girl he is dating.



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24 Oct 2017, 5:43 pm

BTDT wrote:
At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.

Women want the whole package. It’s not they only want a guy tall or they want a well off guy. They want it all. They want the Prince Charming, tall, handsome, fit, athletic, good paid job, car and home. Who also likes everything they like.



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25 Oct 2017, 2:44 am

ZachGoodwin wrote:
sly279 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.

Women want the whole package. It’s not they only want a guy tall or they want a well off guy. They want it all. They want the Prince Charming, tall, handsome, fit, athletic, good paid job, car and home. Who also likes everything they like.


I don't think so, because I've known some girls who date some average-looking guys who are living on welfare checks, and who are shorter than me, and with different tastes than the girl he is dating.


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25 Oct 2017, 4:18 am

sly279 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.

Women want the whole package. It’s not they only want a guy tall or they want a well off guy. They want it all. They want the Prince Charming, tall, handsome, fit, athletic, good paid job, car and home. Who also likes everything they like.

Nope.
Oh, maybe on dating sites. But the dating sites women are a specific kind. It's a real misfortune that socially inept guys turn there and learn from expiriences with them.


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25 Oct 2017, 4:46 am

ZachGoodwin wrote:

I don't think so, because I've known some girls who date some average-looking guys who are living on welfare checks, and who are shorter than me, and with different tastes than the girl he is dating.


Are those women fat?


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25 Oct 2017, 4:58 am

sly279 wrote:
BTDT wrote:
At 5' 2" I'm one of the shorter guys here, but I have a prestigious college degree, paid for house, good job, and a pretty good retirement portfolio. So, while there is a correlation between height and success, it isn't an absolute rule.

Women want the whole package. It’s not they only want a guy tall or they want a well off guy. They want it all. They want the Prince Charming, tall, handsome, fit, athletic, good paid job, car and home. Who also likes everything they like.



Fortunately for most us, those sort of perfect model guys with white collar jobs that have it all are relatively rare and can only be found in the ocean of free willies, hypergamy & over-selectiveness, which is online dating sites.

Avoid women that only rely on online dating sites or online hook-up culture. They are never satisfied unless they lasso the dream guy you talk of. And remember why does a chick that looks half-decent (i.e. not obese or butch) need to use online dating in the first place? Surely it's because all the men she meets and whom ask her out in her real life just don't fit her unrealistic fantasy image.


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