Cafeaulait wrote:
Yes. That´s what I´d think. He didn´t tell me, he told my friend. I said to her that I found it strange because he seems to converse so easily and casually with girls and he has plenty of female ´friends´ (although he says he doesn´t have any good friends).
That's totally different. I can easily socialize with females I have no romantic interest in. It's very different from making contact with somebody I have a romantic interest for. In fact, in order to ask attractive women for a dance when I'm out, I typically "fake" that I only want to dance, otherwise I often don't dare to ask them for a dance. Works very well, but it never develops into anything else than friendships.
Cafeaulait wrote:
My friend then responded: 'perhaps he keeps getting friendzoned?'
Quite likely if he does it like I do it on dances. They can sense that he is not romantically interested, and maybe he needs to fake that in order to dare to make contact?
Cafeaulait wrote:
I was working in the computer lab this afternoon and all of a sudden he came sit next to me. I felt like my face was flushed, but it probably wasn't. OMG that felt so weird and exiting at the same time. I didn't act flirty with him because there were other people around us and I figured he'd not be interested. He was also pretty quick to leave since he just had to print something. That to me also indicates that he has no interest, otherwise he would have stuck around a little bit longer.
I don't think it does. If he is romantically interested in you, maybe just sitting next to you was a big step for him? I think the next step is yours.