What to do with this guy who is attracted to me?
Pretend to be interested in him lead him on then reject him and let him know that you were never interested in a loser or a nobody it will be priceless and hell be heartbroken and destroyed inside.
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And if you REALLY want to sink the boot in, go for his best friend.
(My ex did this to me, thankfully my best friend told him to get stuffed!)
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Guys like this are real A holes. If you tell him you're gay, he'll say he can change you. If you tell him you have a boyfriend, he'll say "What's that got to do with me?" If you say you're not interested, he'll say, "Well, you say that now." He just wants to live life to the fullest while he's here and then go back to Italy and marry his fiance. If he does what he wants here, she won't find out. Think about it. While would an A hole like him want to conquest a little dweeble. He wants a conquest with a hot girl like you. A general is not happy conquesting a town that surrendered on first notice. It's the fight that gives the general the big rush. Once he lands you, he get a big rush.
He's a "me-me".
And if you REALLY want to sink the boot in, go for his best friend.
(My ex did this to me, thankfully my best friend told him to get stuffed!)
Don't play games with a person like this or people like this. You'll get raped. Just avoid!!
It's easy for people on this website to tell you to do this and to do that because it's not them who are in the situation. Be polite, tell the truth BUT stay away!! Guys are different. Say, you went for his best friend. This is what could and probably will happen: One will drug you and they'll both have you. This guy is confident. You can't play games with people like this. They know all the games. You have to expect stuff like this once you join a class. People join classes to meet others or to just have a good time without strings attached.
BAD, VERY BAD ADVICE to give another female!! ! You will get this poor person raped or killed!!
Don't play games like this with people. You think you can control people with manipulative games?! You can't. They'll slap you down really hard!! ! When someone is a bad egg, they should be avoided. Run away fast and keep running. Don't try some weird game of "control" with them.
The one thing I know about Italians is this: They NEVER run around like this until they are engaged or about to be married real soon. They treat women like it's the Last Supper before their crucified by marriage vows.
Oh, and mention that you hope he doesn't mind if Mom moves in and lives with the two of you for the first few years ... you know ... to take care of the twins ... they run in the family ... triplets, too ...
You have just described the typical conservative Middle-Easten girl.
That will do!! !! That's GOOD advice!! !
This is what I can't stand about girls. If you're not interested, then don't offer friendship. Why say you'll do this or that with a person YET you're NOT interested in them. NOT interested mean not interested. It doesn't mean half-way interested. Do you know what "show me around town" really means? It means show me around your genitals. Think about it? When a hooker asks a guy, "Hey, you want a date?" She's not talking about going to a McDonald's for french fries. Or if a hooker asks a guy,"Hey, sailor, new in town?" What do you think that means?? A LOT of guys from other countries think American women are free whores. Look, why is this a dilemma for you? Are you turned on by the guy?? It's at your own risk! Just look out for yourself.
You also need to unfriend him on Facebook.
VERY GOOD ADVICE!! !! !! !! !!
Well I know that now. I didn't now that guys were like that and that 'show me around town' meant 'show me your genitals'. I am not interested in this guy but I will keep seeing him in salsa class, therefore I find it hard to reject him flat out or suddenly defriend him on facebook. But I guess that is what I have to do. I am Dutch by the way, not American.
Well I know that now. I didn't now that guys were like that and that 'show me around town' meant 'show me your genitals'. I am not interested in this guy but I will keep seeing him in salsa class, therefore I find it hard to reject him flat out or suddenly defriend him on facebook. But I guess that is what I have to do. I am Dutch by the way, not American.
RightGalaxy doesn't speak for all guys. Just because he can't maintain a platonic relationship with a female doesn't mean every guy is like that.
I asked a girl out a few weeks ago. We only interact in a specific situation. I enjoyed spending time with her and tried to see if we could spend time together outside of that situation. She turned me down. It hurt, but I am not going to get all mad about it. She doesn't owe me anything. Besides, being an as*hole because she turned me down will ruin any future good times we would have. Relationships with the opposite sex don't have to be all or nothing. Dancing with a guy or chatting on Facebook does not mean you owe him sex or a date. It also doesn't mean that you are leading him on.
One thing I will say about the guy in your salsa class is that he does not seem to respect the word "no", so he is probably not a safe person to spend time with alone outside of salsa class. He'll probably try to coerce you into having sex with him.
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You find him hot that's why you never see him creepy and that's why you are not ghosting him.
You are sexually attracted to him but you are trying to convince yourself that you aren't attracted to him because you don't think he's a bf material .
So you like the playa-bad boy type after all, eh? ;p :trollface:
Seriously. What a stalkative piece of s**t. Yesterday morning he asked me if I could show him around town this weekend and I said: 'Nope, no time'. Half a day later he sends anoter whatsapp with: 'what a long wait'.
WTF is the behaviour? Some guys really need to chill out.
Nah, ignoring him doesn't seem to work. You are going to have to say something, change your number or leave the class.
You are sexually attracted to him but you are trying to convince yourself that you aren't attracted to him because you don't think he's a bf material .
So you like the playa-bad boy type after all, eh? ;p :trollface:
I don't find him hot because 'hot' is something that comes with personality. Purely looks wise, I don't find him good looking or handsome. His face is not the type of face that I would classify as beautiful and I am actually quite turned off by it.
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