Humans are extremely sexualized, and in general, social empathic animals that require human flesh and blood contact to have a BASIC semblance of REAL comfort in life, overall.
Obviously, there are psychopathic leaning exceptions. One can even see that among Bonobos, the other innately peaceful loving ape cousin to human beings.
Humans have a mirror neuron system that is capable of providing this innate comfort by watching others gaining comfort, as a natural instinctual way of learning greater social cognition skills, per the most important type of evolutionary intelligence required for basic subsistence survival in social cooperation, as is the case for any healthy living social animal, on the planet earth, as is, now.
Yes, this can be hard to understand for folks who do not gain any significant benefit from this type of oxytocin social bonding comfort in flesh and blood human connections; however, for folks who do and innately understand it is the way to true social animal homeostasis (happiness or however one terms it) as evolved, still as is, the virtual reality of someone else's comfort to FEEL VICARIOUSLY THROUGH the Human Mirror neuron system when functioning correctly is a hell of a lot better than no human flesh and blood connection at all, either in REAL LIFE, OR VIRTUALLY AS SUCH, through vicarious mirror neuron ways of GETTING THIS MOST BASIC OF ALL HUMAN NEEDS FOR COMFORT, met, PER the oxytocin type of 'WARM AND FUZZIES'.
I'VE LIVED life both ways, and yes, those are the folks who are truly happy in life, as far as I can see, from almost every experience in my life, for one, so far.
And working with the general public and the military for over two decades in direct and almost constant interaction with TENS OF THOUSANDS OF FOLKS, MY CASE STUDIES ARE ALMOST UNLIMITED, IN REAL life, as such.
But I for one find my connections in REAL LIFE, now, BY GETTING OUT THERE AND CONNECTING TO FLESH AND BLOOD FOLKS.
OTHERS take the other option, per virtual reality, for any number OF reasons, AS A RESULT OF social isolation in REAL LIFE FLESH AND BLOOD CONNECTIONS.
And others have no idea what they are even MISSING, AS SADLY AS THAT part of the human condition can be.
And as science now shows, when children are raised by electronics instead of comforted by the breast as metaphor, they simply never grow a 'heart and soul', which is basically just a metaphor for the social bonding thingy, oxytocin, and etc. of FULL HUMAN BEING 1O1 aka LOVE and HUMAN EMPATHY, in some human circles.
BUT AGAIN, been there and done both places, so I KNOW, feel, AND REMEMBER WHAT IT WAS LIKE not to FEEL 'IT', too.
And for one who doesn't, AND NEVER HAS, all these words might as well be meaningless GIBBERISH, for one who is looking in from the other side of the mirror, of potential full humanity, as metaphor.
AND THAT'S okay too, as that too, is part of the human condition, light and dark, as is.
And to be clear I am NOT DIRECTING THIS OPINION AT anyone personally in this conversation, it is simply in response to the OP, and no thing else.