BuyerBeware wrote:
Yes, I do believe this advice.
Yes, it does depend on how you interpret it.
It does not mean "give up on living and accept misery."
It means, "Stop focusing your whole life on [finding love, finding a career, whatever], and just LIVE. Do the things you have to do, do the things you want to do, focus your energy on that and on finding new things that you like to do. Do this, and you will by default find people that you might mutually enjoy sharing a life with."
To me, that counts as looking for love. How else could you sensibly look for it?
In fact, that's what I'd have always done if I could. So advice to stop looking for love, to me, means you should refrain from trying to get the most out of life and give up on anything but wasting it.
_________________
The red lake has been forgotten. A dust devil stuns you long enough to shroud forever those last shards of wisdom. The breeze rocking this forlorn wasteland whispers in your ears, “Não resta mais que uma sombra”.