iliketrees wrote:
I haven't got my date for assessment yet but I have been referred for it.
But good luck, you have any idea about what happens?
I noticed you're in the UK. I am too.
I think assessment differs between areas. I asked to be referred for assessment quite a few weeks ago now. I was also referred to a new psychiatrist anyway before I asked for the assessment. I got an appointment through to see him, I wasn't sure whether or not he would assess me, so I took in everything I'd printed out which I felt indicated Asperger's.
As it happens, he had got my GPs referral letter. He asked me loads of questions and also spoke to my husband as I brought him with me for support and to fill in any blanks (because when I'm stressed my mind tends to go blank and I can't speak). He skimmed what I'd printed but said he'd read it properly later on as obviously the appointment was for a limited time, and I had printed out nine pages.
At the end of the appointment, he told me that he felt I quite obviously have Asperger's, but that he didn't want to officially diagnose me. He said stuff about it being up to me to disclose if I felt I needed to in the future, instead of it being on my medical record for all to see. He seemed to think it may put me at a disadvantage for some things. Anyway, he is happy to write a report of the appointment so I have proof of his verbal diagnosis should I need it.
That was it for me, although I know elsewhere it's a far more complicated and longer process than that. I suppose it would also depend on what you want the outcome to be - if you wanted an official diagnosis on record, I suspect they'd have to do a far more in-depth assessment.
I'm happy to leave it at that right now, because there are other things that also point towards Asperger's for me, my eldest son was diagnosed last year, and I'm pretty sure my dad also has it. I've also seen signs in my youngest two children, and because there doesn't seem to be anyone on the spectrum on my husband's side, I suppose it must come from me if they also have it. And last but not least, I feel as if everything fell into place after reading more and more about it, particularly in adult females, and looking back into my childhood.
OP, best of luck with your assessment