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21 Jan 2016, 9:09 am

I've only recently noticed that I'm attracted to girls and bishonen guys/guys who look like girls. I seem to like braids on girls for some reason as well. *shrug* I just thought I'd make a thread if anyone wants to talk about it.


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21 Jan 2016, 6:35 pm

Sorry for double posting. I just wanted to add that when I was little, I used to make up fantasies in my head about bishonen wizards and bishojo magic girls. :oops: When I play Fire Emblem, I try to pair up the cutest girls with the bishonen guys; I never bother with the tough looking guys.


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21 Jan 2016, 10:25 pm

I'm not sure what I am. I think I am asexual, but I'm not sure if I'm biromantic or aromantic or what. I am attracted to both girls and guys, but my attractions/obsessions are kinda...weird. Not like most people's.

I think if you are attracted to girls and feminine guys, then you might be bi with a preference for girls/femininity.



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21 Jan 2016, 10:27 pm

Kuraudo777 wrote:
I've only recently noticed that I'm attracted to girls and bishonen guys/guys who look like girls. I seem to like braids on girls for some reason as well. *shrug* I just thought I'd make a thread if anyone wants to talk about it.


I've noticed the same thing, but unlike you, I've noticed it for years. I'm bisexual, by the way.



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22 Jan 2016, 3:37 am

I don't understand how anyone can be 100% straight :lol: girls are amazing.


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22 Jan 2016, 8:38 am

I don't like guys romantically.



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22 Jan 2016, 9:31 am

Lesbian, gay [which originally meant happy], bisexual, homosexual...what's the difference? I can't keep up.


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22 Jan 2016, 9:39 am

Everyone is a person you either like them romantically or not, worry about logistics when it becomes necessary.


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22 Jan 2016, 9:56 am

^I guess that makes sense. What about when you feel love for all living things? Pan...something or Omni...something.


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22 Jan 2016, 10:05 am

Pan-sexual I think


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22 Jan 2016, 10:06 am

^That doesn't sound right somehow...


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22 Jan 2016, 10:25 am

Kuraudo777 wrote:
^That doesn't sound right somehow...



^ :oops: I read the above in context of the original question. (I tend to gloss over information sometimes)

Hmm it's still Pan... but not sure what after.


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22 Jan 2016, 10:26 am

Pan-Agape? [Agape =Greek= unconditional/eternal love]


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22 Jan 2016, 3:18 pm

Sexual Orientations
Heterosexual (straight) - sexually attracted to people of the opposite gender
Homosexual (gay) - sexually attracted to people of the same gender (lesbian is the same, but only for females)
Bisexual - sexually attracted to people of both genders
Pansexual - sexually attracted to people of all genders (includes non-binary people)
Asexual - not experiencing sexual attraction

Romantic Orientations
Heteroromantic - romantically attracted to people of the opposite gender
Homoromantic - romantically attracted to people of the same gender
Biromantic - romantically attracted to people of both genders
Panromantic - romantically attracted to people of all genders
Aromantic - not experiencing romantic attraction



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22 Jan 2016, 3:54 pm

I'm not sure it's necessary to put a label on yourself if you're not even sure exactly what your preferences are.

I think of myself as straight, but I have been attracted to women at times, and I wouldn't rule out having a relationship with a woman if I found the right person. So what would that make me? Open-minded? Slightly bisexual? It doesn't really matter to me. I don't feel the need to have a label. You are who you are. Labels can sometimes be limiting, I think.



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22 Jan 2016, 6:48 pm

Yigeren wrote:
I'm not sure it's necessary to put a label on yourself if you're not even sure exactly what your preferences are.

I think of myself as straight, but I have been attracted to women at times, and I wouldn't rule out having a relationship with a woman if I found the right person. So what would that make me? Open-minded? Slightly bisexual? It doesn't really matter to me. I don't feel the need to have a label. You are who you are. Labels can sometimes be limiting, I think.


That is exactly what I was trying to get across. I am a man of limited words though.


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