Please let me know if these are Aspergery traits:
He was way too honest about private things on date 1
There has been no effort on dates, no planning, he is never on time, an hour late, three hours early with no warning, cancels at the time he is meant to be arriving, very forgetful, very unreliable, seems lazy and oblivious. There is just no effort at all.
He makes bad decisions so he is late, he says he will bring stuff for bbq or what not then doesn't etc. When I handed him the meat to start cooking on bbq he whined "Why do I have to do it?" He forgets that I am picking him up and then was about to drive to pick me up.
I invited him to a family easter lunch and he forgot and then made other plans.
There are a lot of stories about immature or crazy things he has done over the years that he thinks are quite funny but really make me worry.
If I go to his place, the second I arrive he puts on cartoon after cartoon without even asking me what I want to watch. He never has a dinner plan and there are no dinner options for miles and miles from his place.
He likes cartoons, video games, he just bought some pokemon playing cards. He is nearly 40 yrs old. I often feel like I am dealing with teenager level maturity but he is an absolute genius in other ways.
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