Hi, I don't have any earthshaking input for you, but I just wanted to welcome you. I as diagnosed as an adult too and it was a lot to take in at the time. After my dx, I read lots of books about Asperger's and I guess that helped some because I realized I was far from alone in what I was experiencing. Guess it was the old "misery loves company" thing. But if you stick around here for a while, I think you'll find some good input and good company.
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I said, "You don't understand that I don't understand what you understand."