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09 Jul 2016, 5:43 am

I realized that I cannot be attracted to too ugly guys. Am I a bad person?

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09 Jul 2016, 6:05 am

You're attracted to who you're attracted to. If that makes you a bad person then we're all going to hell, I guess.

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09 Jul 2016, 12:24 pm

I wish I could be like you :lol: . Every time I'm interested in a guy I swear he's ugly like aesthetically speaking and my friends always comment on how ugly the men I become interested in are fjsjsksk.

It sucks, but I don't think it's abnormal to be like you are, especially if you experience sexual attraction. I don't, so it's not as big of a deal for me lol.

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09 Jul 2016, 1:09 pm

Good, then I am safe.

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09 Jul 2016, 1:45 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Good, then I am safe.

What do you mean Boo? I've seen your picture and I think you are quite the stud muffin. :wink:

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09 Jul 2016, 4:36 pm

Thanks guys. Having inability to be attracted to specific looks, it doesn't matter how perfect personality he has, which makes me feel disgusted by myself.

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09 Jul 2016, 4:42 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Good, then I am safe.

LOL

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09 Jul 2016, 4:47 pm

lidsmichelle wrote:

I wish I could be like you :lol:

. Every time I'm interested in a guy I swear he's ugly like aesthetically speaking and my friends always comment on how ugly the men I become interested in are fjsjsksk.

It sucks, but I don't think it's abnormal to be like you are, especially if you experience sexual attraction. I don't, so it's not as big of a deal for me lol.

I envy you. I wish I have no sexual attraction.

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09 Jul 2016, 6:19 pm

ShesGone wrote:

Thanks guys. Having inability to be attracted to specific looks, it doesn't matter how perfect personality he has, which makes me feel disgusted by myself.

You shouldn't feel too bad about it, you can't really control what preferences you have as far as attraction. There are certain looks I don't find attractive either and I thought it was a fairly normal thing. It's also quite possible some features/looks you find unattractive may be attractive to other people, so not like they don't have a chance with anyone just because you're not attracted.

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09 Jul 2016, 6:40 pm

Sweetleaf wrote:

...It's also quite possible some features/looks you find unattractive may be attractive to other people, so not like they don't have a chance with anyone just because you're not attracted.

Thanks, maybe this is what I'm looking for.

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09 Jul 2016, 9:09 pm

not sure if bad, but it's creepy as fk and so gay.

well, i have nothing against gays i mean i don't care, but if i was good looking and felt that another dude is physically attracted to me, for sure that would creep the fk out of me

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09 Jul 2016, 9:30 pm

What is an ugly guy even?

I don't know how this is even measured.

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09 Jul 2016, 9:34 pm

awkward facepalm wrote:

Why such hate? This is such a uneccsary comment. It's very rude to call someones feelings they can't control creepy. It's like calling autistic people creepy for being autistic.

I would and have felt very flattered when women have shown interest in me. People don't chose who they are attracted to. Just take a compliment, tell them sorry you are straight and ya know... don't be a dick about it.

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09 Jul 2016, 9:39 pm

ShesGone wrote:

I realized that I cannot be attracted to too ugly guys. Am I a bad person?

Tbh are these guys just ugly because your not attracted to them?

Like for me people I'm attracted to I find good looking but the people my friends are attracted to I don't find good looking.

It's like 4am so sorry if this makes no sense :lol:

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09 Jul 2016, 9:51 pm

Alliekit wrote:

k, but next time plz ignore my posts u annoy me

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09 Jul 2016, 10:42 pm

^ You don't need to be that defensive, what she said is not a personal attack you know that.

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