Question for the dudes.

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When you encounter someone, and you perfectly link mentally with that person, how do you let them know?

Met someone and I'm struggling with how to let them know I really like them, like really autistic like them.

Are we doomed to never being able to communicate how we feel?

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written communication. any kind of written communication

I think there can’t be such a link if you haven’t told them already.

When you find out let me know. I've liked the same girl for more than a decade and haven't told her.

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Um, I'm a dudette, but just tell them. What's the worst thing that can happen? It won't kill you - unless you have a heart attack or stroke I guess from the stress. It's either take a chance or be depressed for life then you die anyway.

I think if you detect they like you, more then just as a friend, then you just tell them. There is some risk, as if you are wrong about how they feel, they may not only turn you down but also distance themselves. But that's how it is. Another version of 'no pain, no gain'.

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