whatamievendoing wrote:
Obviously I can only speak on my own behalf here, but generally, two crucial traits I look for in a potential partner are honesty and open-mindedness. I myself am honest and open-minded, and I want my partner to share those traits. Everything else is secondary.
I already have those traits so clearly I'm doing something right
Ban-Dodger wrote:
I already found you attractive but I do not have much social-time available for anybody at this stage in my life due to needing to deal with an incredibly intrusive and corrupt government that is trying to violate my rights.
Aww, thanks. I can understand how that can take up a majority of your time as I have a friend who has a similar issue to that.
Zed90230 wrote:
amykitten wrote:
I'm planning on reinventing myself as I've realised the only guys I can seem to attract are all people who end up abusing me in some shape or form, be it mentally or physically. Or guys who aren't a good match for me. So I know I need to do something about this so I can get a guy I like. So any suggestions?
I don't consider myself qualified to answer your question because I have my own ideas about what's attractive, some of which are diametrically at odds with what men are "supposed to" find attractive.
I'd still like to hear them please. We're all unique after all and I expect there are some people like you in the area I live or study in