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08 Jul 2017, 3:53 am

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Are there really no non-arrogant middle class educated men out there? Must there always be a f*****g catch?

I guess regular guys see me like that too, so they reject me as too posh, but the men in my own socio-economic group are such arrogant know-it-alls who think they're soo educated and must save the masses from their ignorance or just laugh at their supposed stupidity.

I prefer real people, but they don't want me.

No one wants me.

Tonights bottle of wine is nicer than last weekend's btw.

It's not true that no one wants you, lots of guys below your class would probably love being with you.

Lots of middle class people tend to have a arrogant better then everyone attitude.
Reminds me of the pointlessness of my existence.

Still hope you'll feel better. Hugs

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08 Jul 2017, 3:55 am

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It makes me want to be really in-your-face about my church work and the fact that I learned Arabic so that I could help Muslim refugees just have someone to talk to when they were trying to settle in a foreign, rainy, cold land.

I should robably stop osting, I've had too much wine

That was truly adorable. You seem like a good person, I'm sorry this person you like seems to be incompatible with your own ideology and worse yet fails to see you for who you are. Any advice I would have on this would likely be bad advice so I will refrain from giving you bad advice.

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08 Jul 2017, 4:16 am

He's like The Bizzaro hurtloam. We're very alike on the surface, but equally passionate in opposite ways.

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08 Jul 2017, 4:41 am

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I don't know where to start with this. I cried all the way home. I thought that someone I like was going to be going to this same party as me and even though he was the one who suggested I go, he wasnt there.

I hate it when that happens! I used to have this "friend" who kept inviting me to places where I didn't know anyone and than ditching me. Then she expected me to socialise at a place where I didn't know anyone.

Then she jeered "Bookworm!!" at me for reading my Kindle. WTF else was I supposed to do?

Don't feel bad hurtloam. If your friend ditched you, it's not because you're a bad person, it's because he's a bad person. The way people treat us says more about them than it does about us.

So long as you treat people with kindness, you're alright in my books

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08 Jul 2017, 6:17 am

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hurtloam wrote:

Oh I don't want you all thinking he's bulldozing over me. We just never talked about this stuff before. I didn't really see the real him either. We'll definitely stay friends I think.

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08 Jul 2017, 9:24 pm

Cheer up. Things may not have worked out today but there is still tomorrow.

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09 Jul 2017, 1:20 am

Dreams don't come true.

This just happens over and over and over again. I keep meeting new guys and nothing ever goes anywhere. I never even get to the point where something as little as a kiss is shared.

I just don't think I'm ever going to find someone who will want to stick around. Im never good enough for anyone.

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09 Jul 2017, 1:58 am

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Just because it hasn't happened yet doesn't necessarily correlate to it never happening. Are you saying it is not plausible, however unlikely you feel it may be? What you want most in life is an impossibility? What would the odds be, that is true? Like I said, there is always tomorrow and tomorrow brings many random events you may not imagine can happen today. Don't let your conditioned bias cloud your judgment, try to be more optimistic.

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09 Jul 2017, 2:19 am

I think the odds of me not finding someone is higher than me actually finding someone.

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09 Jul 2017, 3:21 am

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So kiss them already. Guys love being kissed.

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09 Jul 2017, 5:51 am

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hurtloam wrote:

So kiss them already. Guys love being kissed.

Ha no. Not good advice. In movies maybe, but in real life you can't just grab someone you know and kiss them, especially if they don't even fancy you.

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09 Jul 2017, 11:37 pm

I can't believe this has hit me so bad. I feel awful.

That warmth was something that I really wanted and I wish we could have made it last a little longer, spend a bit more time together.

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10 Jul 2017, 12:03 am

As long as everyone's alive you can find them.

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10 Jul 2017, 5:43 am

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I can't believe this has hit me so bad. I feel awful.

That warmth was something that I really wanted and I wish we could have made it last a little longer, spend a bit more time together.

We've all been there. If you want to feel his warmth you must do something now. In a few years you'll turn 40 and women over 40 have less chance of finding a partner.

Do you really want to live your whole life without experiencing love? Without being held? Without being cherished? If not, act now! Before it's too late.

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10 Jul 2017, 7:24 am

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hurtloam wrote:

I can't believe this has hit me so bad. I feel awful.

That warmth was something that I really wanted and I wish we could have made it last a little longer, spend a bit more time together.

Thanks a bunch

Nah he doesn't like me like that. There's no point.

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10 Jul 2017, 8:32 am

Well that's unfortunate.

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