Other people usually have interesting stories. I like to hear them. I don't like asking questions, often, nor being asked questions. I will ask questions to clarify things, once someone indicates a willingness to open up on the subject. I'd rather they make that choice themselves, rather than prompted by me.
Putting myself in the place of others came later in life, intentionaly, as an exercise in empathy. I suppose that because I have to remember to exercise empathy, I probably go through the process more slowly and deliberately. Where an NT person could instantly imagine how another person would react to some stimulus, I guess I have to work through it and end up saying something out loud or writing some musing on how I might process what they have experienced.
I just wondered how it relates to the way other people have autism. I get super excited about some things, and have to take care not to rattle on about them, of course.
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