Male disposability in life & dating

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Because it means the millions of men in the u.k who work low pay or low status jobs would go dateless.

If the vast majority of the male workforce went dateless, then society would collapse. Some bodies got to do those jobs.
You have say a businessmen at the top who owns a cider company and drives a Bentley, he's an entrepreneur and catch in every way due to money, but who's doing the dirty work picking the apples for a low wage to make the cider and to make the boss rich and keep the company successful and afloat? Without the guys at the bottom, the guys at the top wouldn't profit either.

How can men truly be productive members of society if they are denied women? or rather women not allowing them to date them, as those women only deem the men with the best jobs worthy. Or maybe low paid men are 'pushed' to date obese women when they simply cannot do that. As more and more women go to college or University and turn there noses up at men with low status jobs, this is more or less what's going on now, albeit in a hidden segment of society thats forgotten about... or just not talked about. One way to view the epidemic is to imagine that an entire generation of young men lost their ambition, that all they wanted to do was to hang out and play video games, that they were perfectly happy in dead-end jobs, making little money, looking at youtube and porn. This is a net negative, analogous to weight gain in women, for men’s dating desirability. In fact, a popular book claims such an epidemic currently exists among young men.

If this epidemic of un-ambitious young men really exists, can it be accounted for by the scarcity of slender, attractive women? Why are young men driven to achieve? Evolutionary biology hypothesizes that males pursue achievement to attract women. But if there are so few desirable (read: healthy weight) women, a young male may conclude that all efforts toward self-improvement and success are futile. With so few thin women, even years of herculean effort will not provide him a reasonable chance to mate with someone attractive. So why bother? Why not let the immigrants do those jobs?

But at the same time, women who are that caught up on their career's and the career title of a potential mate, and think they're too good for 95% of guys may not be the type women you really want in your life as a man.

Dear Universe,

After reading through the entire thread, which covered the men's rights movement, feminism, unemployed men, supermarket woman, fast food woman, obese woman, picky women, gold diggers, skinny women, plus size woman, various definitions of what constitutes a real man, an average man, or desirable man, John Mayer, the dating game in general, one unsuspecting older obese woman, the obligatory pedo discussion and subsequent consensus that all men are sick, and, of course, so so much more...I still want a girlfriend.

If men can have preferences for thin women, why can't women have inclinations towards men with decent jobs?

You're technically right. But given how many double-standards feminists insist on, it's only fair for Red Pilled men to do the same. So in this case, it'd be pot calling kettle black. Not saying it's right, but just saying.

Oh, and until about 5 years ago, I didn't discriminate on size. I just dated whoever showed interest in me, or approached whoever was most likely to say yes.

QFT

And you guys wonder why women don't like men

We really don't want this crap in our lives let alone our houses.

Women Going Our Own Way

I do think this forum is helping me feel less lonely. I'd rather have my single life that get stuck with... well let's not get personal.

Most women are attracted to teen guys. All the many recent young female teachers having sex with bunch of their male students are proof of that. What woman wouldn’t be attracted to a 17old male with six pack abs , 6,’4” tall and a handsome face nearly indistinguishable from an 180ld man?
For that day why is the same body bad to be attracted to at 16/17 but at 18 it’s ok?
Seems to me ifbone is wrong so is the other since it’s the same body. Human unconscious attraction doesn’t take into account age or mental capacity. That’s what we have a conscious mind for.
Say a man who looks like brat pit but has the mind of a 15 old would it be wrong for women to find his body attractive? Notnlike many men even know how old that woman or girl they see in public is. She doesn’t walk around with a sign that say I’m 16

In other words. it's okay for men to have preferences based on "biology" and "evolution," but it's not okay for women to have preferences based on "biology" and "evolution."

As for being attracted to teenagers, sure, you can be "attracted" to them, but being attracted to them and acting on it are two different things. Some girls have a condition called "precocious puberty" that causes them to develop physically at a much younger age than normal. Just because a young girl has breasts and is fertile does not mean it's appropriate to pursue a sexual relationship with her. Emotional maturity matters, unless you think it's perfectly fine to have sex with a girl of seven just because she has a "grown-up" body. After all, the youngest women to have a baby in recorded history was only five.

I'm not sexually attracted to teen boys--kids in high school look like children to me, because they are. They still have baby faces and gangly awkward limbs, they are inexperienced and naive. If you are an adult and you find that sexually attractive, it means your own emotional and psychological development is stunted and you never progressed into emotional and psychological adulthood.

Men and women don’t grow much from 17 to 18 so I call bu****t
Go look at a high school senior football team and tell them apart from a college foot ball team . Most of them will be on one in less then a year. Heck men join the military at 17 and depending on their birthday may even deploy to war. So unless you don’t find any men under 25 attractive your just lying.

Then just go join the redpill it's guaranteed you will get a gf from that.

Dear Universe,

After reading through the entire thread, which covered the men's rights movement, feminism, unemployed men, supermarket woman, fast food woman, obese woman, picky women, gold diggers, skinny women, plus size woman, various definitions of what constitutes a real man, an average man, or desirable man, John Mayer, the dating game in general, one unsuspecting older obese woman, the obligatory pedo discussion and subsequent consensus that all men are sick, and, of course, so so much more...I still want a girlfriend.

I don't want a boyfriend anymore. Thank you wrong planet. You've dispelled that desire and I can get in with my life now. :p

I like men my age or older, and that has been consistent as I myself have aged. I liked teen guys when I was a teen myself--as I got older, the men I found myself sexually attracted to got older, too. That's how it usually works for people whose emotional development didn't halt before they reached adulthood.