Aye, some dont really have a choice in the matter.
I live in northern Illinois, which I *loathe*, because that's where I was born, that's where my family is, and I cant live on my own (or I'd have left a long time ago). This place has no redeeming values whatsoever and Iv'e hated every square inch of it for as long as I can remember.
It's currently winter here, and the blazing hatred for it reaches incomprehensible levels. I'm convinced that the solution is napalm. Lots of it.
As such, I travel as much as conceivably possible. The places I go to (for conventions usually) arent necessarily warm, but they also arent here, so that works out at least as a way to get away.
On the plus side though my family recently bought a place down in Florida on an island nobody seems to have ever heard of, so whenever possible, can go down there instead. It's quiet, it's always warm, and it's a small place... no matter where on it you are, the water is within walking distance. The only downside is that when I say it's a small place, I mean it. It seems to mostly be used for retired people, and tourists, so there isnt actually all that much there in terms of places to go. Hell, there's ONE grocery store. If you want to go to any more major locations, it's a 35-minute trip down The Bridge with the name I cant remember. Takes forever. Fine by me though. Not sure why I'd want to go from "quiet" to "crowded and annoying" all that often when down there anyway.
I'd just be down there pretty much all the time, but.... again, dont have a choice in the matter.
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i've noticed that southerners in general don't appreciate effeminate long-haired old outliers such as myself, conformity is much more a valued thing in the warmer places [outside of California at least].
What does this mean? I havent encountered anything like this anywhere down south myself.