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ALADDIN_1978
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03 Aug 2018, 2:55 am

A girl said, she has had a few relationships and that I was charming, she smiled.

Could that mean, she wants to be in a relationship with me ?



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03 Aug 2018, 7:50 am

Why don't you ask her if she would like to do something with you? Maybe you have a shared interest, even if it just going for a walk.



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03 Aug 2018, 9:05 am

She finds you charming. She digs you in some way. I would ask her if she wanted to see a movie or for some "coffee." "Coffee" doesn't literally have to mean "coffee." It can mean any sort of non-alcoholic drink. Going out for "drinks" means alcoholic drinks.

Being told you're "charming" is usually a great compliment.



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04 Aug 2018, 10:06 am

It could mean a lot of things. Either she does want a relationship with you or she merely finds you charming in a platonic sense.

I'm no expert, though.


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04 Aug 2018, 11:56 am

It can just be a compliment. Women have called me attractive, but that doesn't mean they want to be in a relationship with me.


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04 Aug 2018, 1:54 pm

ALADDIN_1978 wrote:
A girl said, she has had a few relationships and that I was charming, she smiled.

Could that mean, she wants to be in a relationship with me ?


I can't be 100% positive, because I wasn't there to observe the whole conversation, but it sounds like she might be hinting around that she is interested in you. I would ask her to do something with you sometime, and see how it goes.



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06 Aug 2018, 10:42 pm

I attended a counselling session, she is good looking, but her personality is not the best.



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06 Aug 2018, 10:46 pm

Personality is what counts because that is what you spend the most time with. I'm sorry she doesn't have a better personality.


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06 Aug 2018, 11:06 pm

She has a good personality, a bit tough, good looking, I attended counselling in April 2018.

I am not sure it is ethical.

I did not have therapy, just talking.



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08 Aug 2018, 1:09 am

Is her name Jasmine? Otherwise you can't marry her.



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08 Aug 2018, 7:18 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Is her name Jasmine? Otherwise you can't marry her.


Nice joke. :D


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09 Aug 2018, 2:33 pm

ALADDIN_1978 wrote:
I attended a counselling session, she is good looking, but her personality is not the best.



They usually have a either a good personality, or good looks, very rarely do they have both. :P



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09 Aug 2018, 2:57 pm

SilverStar wrote:
ALADDIN_1978 wrote:
I attended a counselling session, she is good looking, but her personality is not the best.



They usually have a either a good personality, or good looks, very rarely do they have both. :P

How convenient, hardly anyone is missing out. Spread the word :P



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