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Husband has Aspergers. I need help.

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magz
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10 Oct 2020, 5:43 am

Pepe wrote:
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Pepe wrote:
Is the problem *only* on one side?
I'm very much against blaming. Blaming is counter-productive.
When things are bad, redirect the energy from "whose fault is it" to "what can we do now".
Are you saying I'm blaming someone?

I interpreted your post as "do you think it's all only his fault?" and responded with "it's not about whose fault is it, it's about what to do."
I really mean it.
Maybe I misinterpreted you, I don't know.


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14 Oct 2020, 6:15 am

I do keep wondering whether things continued to improve for this lady who posted.
Hope its getting better.



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05 Nov 2020, 5:10 am

What is the context behind the weekly life of you and your husband?. Might he be working 60 hour weeks? Might he be looking after his mother financially. Might he be looking after everyone financially? Has something happened which has shook him?