My dad made me jaywalk across busy oilfield road.

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The state of Texas does not look at it as detaining me against my will.The Cops said that in Texas my parents are free to take away all my freedom and not let me do anything and I have to listen to them or they can kick me out back with no warning.But if they want to kick me off the premises they have to give me one month eviction notice.My mom made me bleed a few years ago and her mom took her side and victim blamed me.My mom hit me with a plastic water bottle in anger.She said I should stop insisting on having rights.

I know that feeling all too well. While I don’t like disparaging the dead, my parents, by today’s standards, were quite abusive. They couldn’t help being that way, as they both came from broken homes.

In Mom’s case, her father was the town drunk. Even after she got pregnant by my dad out of wedlock, the abuse continued. It was real obvious that she was an unwanted child. Her view of discipline, figuratively, was shoot to kill, and to hell with asking questions. You’re still guilty, even if you could prove your innocence beyond a shadow of a doubt. Her type of discipline was very corporal: she’d beat your ass with whatever she had in her hands, be it a marble rolling pin, a curtain rod, a wire coat hanger, or her foot up your ass. It was the exact type of discipline her parents meted out on her. She bore the brunt of that kind of discipline, while her younger brother got away with any and everything. In short, her father wanted a drinking buddy, which her brother became.

Dad wasn’t much better. His father left him, his mother, three older sisters and two younger brothers since he was f!cking another woman on the side. He was, by modern standards, a covert Narcisscist, since he could be nice and contrite one moment, then turn around and stab you in the back the next, while tearing down your psyche physically, mentally and emotionally, and verbally. While growing up, I was always the goat, taking the blame for most everything.

It didn’t help the church my brothers and I grew up in taught the two principles of disciplining are Spare the rod and spoil the child, and in order to break a child, you have to break them the same way you break a horse: with physical and mental abuse. This congregation’s theology was the worst of 5-point Calvinism and Arminianism. (Now you you know why I left for the Lutherans)

As it comes to mental health, they subscribed to L. B. Mayer’s dictum “Anyone who sees a psychologist or a psychiatrist ought to have their head examined!” Their answer to mental illness: there is no such thing. If anything, any kind of bad behavior by a child, deserves to have it physically beat out of them. It’s one of the reasons I no longer speak to my brothers or most of my relatives.

In short, since you are of age, get out of their house now, and don’t look back.

If you think Texans (the old saw of Texas is populated with nothing but steers and queers somehow comes to mind) and Aussies is bad, try dealing with the Pennsylvania Dutch! The only truth about PA life is there are two major cities in the state that hate each other, separated by the Amish and Mennonites.

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I would get out of the house now but I dont have any money or income or a debit or credit card or any of my own assets not even a bank account.I cant afford to buy a single item of food.It is a crime for me more than 2 grand and I am not allowed to make enough money by working enough hours to get my own place to live in apartment.No apartments would rent to me anyways since my mom did not let me have credit score.I cant even afford a t-shirt or a pair of jeans from the thrift store or Goodwill I am so dirt poor.My parents are multi-millionaires.My poverty is heart-breaking and I feel like such a failure.My house is a dictatorship run by Dad the Dictator.

I once had a Mennonite girlfriend but we never got into the specifics but I dont know much about it but it may be even more strict than the church of Christ.I am thinking of doing a podcast or youtube about stories of the church of Christ and the Restorationist Movement and other church of Christ stuff.I dont know much about the Amish or mennonites.We have a bunch of Mennonites near where I live and you will see them with old fashioned clothes speaking some form of German buying a lot of groceries and supplies.

Get a lawyer, sue / press charges against these toxic and abusive people, and get out of there. Endlessly complaining here isn't going to do you any good.

I am thinking of suing them out to wazoo when they are in their 80's when I am out of the house or suing their estate.

Did you say they're in their 80's? , I suppose that means you could expect an inheritance soon. I mean if they haven't cut you out of their will already, you being a massive disappointment to them, and how they hate you and everything.

my dad is getting close to his 70's.I dont know what to think of them anymore.They already supposed have a trust fund for my sister and me and my dad showed recently that has an additional 2 million in the stock market in a discount brokerage account I did not know about it.I think He has about 2 million in his IRA and there's another 500,000 in another brokerage account and their house is worth close to a million and my mom has at least one left over 401K.So conservatievly those assets could be 3 to 5 million not the counting the oil company and their cash in personal and corporate accounts.I love them.The Cops know they mean well.I also think my dad's dad was a literally psychopath before he died because I had to take away his 2 .38 Specials before he could shoot in me the chest and/or stomach/or head/or neck before he could shoot me and himself.Also my grandfather shot a real gun at me point blank accidently alledgly but maybe he was trying to murder me then like he tried to do right before his died.Also my dad pointed his deer rifle at my head point blank because he was being so stupid.Like I was looking down the barrel of a deer rifle because my dad does not practice best practices with guns and my dad always is messing with the trigger.One split second mistake on my dad's part and I would of been JFK'd in the head at point blank range .One time my dad almost JFK'd his brother in the head with a shotgun.My grandmother has 2 to 3 million in stock approximatelt and she is in her 90's.My dad is always gaslighting me about about how he denies he is always accidently pointing our deer rifles at me on every trip.

This is one of the reasons I support a well-funded social safety net even if it means people's taxes go up, even if it means my taxes go up.

You shouldn't have to wait in an abusive situation, hoping you're not harmed while waiting to collect the inheritance that's your only viable option to avoid homelessness. You should have options beyond 'end up homeless' or 'wait it out and hope for the best'.

Uh yeah, if what you say is true, you can either leave your psycho family, and start a new life. Or risk getting wasted, waitin around for some kind of payoff. But you might not make it. So better watch out for that grassy knoll.

Ya well i am trying to start a intentional community to give myself a place to live on the cheap with some friends since I cant afford apartment or house.I am trying to see if i can legally do that as someone on medicaid.Because I would only need 50 to 100 acres tops so I can live off the land since I cant afford anything to eat.there definatley more should be done for us people on the spectrum safety-net wise.Lets just Hope and pray if you feel like it that I dont get Lee Harvey Oswald'd in the head accidently while I wait to collect the inheritance.

Lee Harvey Oswald was actually the stomach.

Yeah, you maybe could split rent with those friends, being on medicaid shouldn't be a problem for that. Seriously though if it's really that bad the sooner you can get out the better.

Ya I dont think I want to go hunting with my dad anymore.Just know that I really appreciate all of yall.I am thinking of getting a second opinion from my therapist on my dad's lack of gun safety.I have had to tell my dad that I will shoot him if shoots at me because he has threatened to kill me a lot multiple times.Thank you.

Ya sorry my bad I was referring to his head shot at 12:29 PM in Dallas.But my bad I should of been more clear.