You'll never get a (biological) woman as a (biological) man for a long-term relationship, unless you put on the table a lot more than they do, in most cases (not all cases).
But any man can get short-term hook-ups. Even an Autistic dude - if Autistic folk can socially mask appropriately & are willing to peck away at the targets of their affection.
Women want sex too, they just have higher standards then men most of the time. That's the truth. Plus, they are socially more intelligent than men and see more consequences to their actions a lot of the time.
You might get lucky with the proverbial 'village bicycle' type of woman. Nothing wrong with those women either. There are males who have proverbially 'been around the block' too.