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16 Mar 2024, 3:04 am

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I think people used to think they could make someone straight. They still do given that some still refer to being gay as a “lifestyle” rather than an intrinsic part of who a person is. I don’t really get it. It doesn’t seem like a particularly difficult thing to understand.

That's a gripe of mine really.

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Unfortunately, I think it's sometimes routed in the misconception that being gay is an intense dislike and / or fear of the opposite sex.

I had a guy once rather inappropriately ask me 'who was the man that turned me gay' as if some man had crossed me and I'd declared him and his gender the enemy and that I was interested in women as a form of... coping? Rebellion? Misandry?

Such folks believe that they'll be the one to 'enlighten' a gay person. :roll:

I remember I rejected a guy once and he countered with "Well actually, I think you're bisexual" as if we were having a vote. :lol:

That is hilarious. :lol:

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16 Mar 2024, 7:19 am

I’d find such comments extremely frustrating. I had someone claim once that I was pansexual/gender-blind because I had bad experiences with men which is absurd. I had female crushes when I was young. Correlation does not equal causation. I think the guy was worried that I’d find him inadequate or something even though I’m strictly monogamous.

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16 Mar 2024, 7:22 am

Oh this has happened to me. It was back in the early 90s and he was my next-door neighbour and he was living with an old school friend of mine and they had a child or maybe two.

He said I should have sex with him because everyone thought I was a lesbian and I needed to prove them wrong. :lol:

Yeah right!

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17 Mar 2024, 3:35 pm

babybird wrote:

Why do some heterosexual women fancy homosexual men.

Perhaps they've had some bad experiences with guys & want to avoid straight guys using them for sex

I'm thinking of something like this :mrgreen:

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17 Mar 2024, 3:51 pm

Yeah because when I used to frequent gay bars many years ago they were always full of groups of single heterosexual women.

I always used to wonder to myself if they went there because they felt safer in a gay bar than they would in a pub full of heterosexual men.

It's a complete fallacy of course.

Sorry I can't watch your video atm

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21 Mar 2024, 2:51 pm

Hetty don't want no scrub

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31 Mar 2024, 5:51 am

What's dancing all about

Is it some kind of primal mating ritual

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31 Mar 2024, 5:57 am

^Probably. It'd be interesting to see what percentages of men who consider themselves unlucky in love are also bad/reluctant dancers.

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31 Mar 2024, 6:03 am

Yeah :lol:

Jamesy needs to get a pair of Cuban heels and a sparkly shirt

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01 Apr 2024, 9:16 am

I think my bf is investing to much faith in my lucky hat

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01 Apr 2024, 9:35 am

babybird wrote:

Yeah

Jamesy needs to get a pair of Cuban heels and a sparkly shirt

Imagine Jamesy doing the following dance as shown in this video:

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01 Apr 2024, 9:41 am

Hahaha...I don't know how well that would go down in the local weatherspoons

Seriously though I think dance classes could be the ideal place to meet people of the opposite sex.

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01 Apr 2024, 10:12 am

babybird wrote:

Hahaha...I don't know how well that would go down in the local weatherspoons

Seriously though I think dance classes could be the ideal place to meet people of the opposite sex.

That's a good point.

Dancing is a good skill to have.

I remember relatively recently on a night out late last year, I had some woman approach me on the dance floor and took my hand for a dance and I had no idea how to dance so kind of walked off annoyed with myself and a bit embarrassed. :lol: