Lost_dragon wrote:
Not a man but I like women.
Hmm. Well, someone's face is the first thing you see. I think that eyes, in particular, are quite pretty. Not so much if you dislike eye contact I suppose.
Then there's the 'energy' the person radiates. I don't want to say aura, but I guess the feeling of being around them. This is partly based on the physical and partly based on personality.
I generally find that I experience two main types of attraction. The first typically starts by noticing the face, then gradually other things. Their laugh, the way they dress, their body and so on.
Then there's the other type, that seemingly out of nowhere intense pull. Where the physique stands out more. It's not as gradual, it's just sudden and jarring.
Which is more important? Hmm. I think it's difficult to differentiate since as I find myself crushing on someone, all their physical features become attractive as a whole and their interactions seem warm somehow. Almost as if they're glowing. It's always odd when a crush fades and you realise 'Oh wait. This is just an average person. Huh. I, uh, that was strange'.
I love how you think.
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