Share a fact about yourself that you WOULDN'T tell a date

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..... up to the point of being in a very committed relationship, at least.

I probably wouldn’t tell them too much about my trauma history, that I had been in a psych ward after the first incident, or about my current suspicions until I knew that I could trust them.

- The details of my SA history
I don't have a problem saying I have CPTSD or that it's from SA, but only two people on Earth know the details.
One of them was my trauma therapist and he's senile now, so I guess that leaves one person.

- About Barbie and Snagglepuss

- Anything about my finances

- My full real name, my birth name, my address, etc.

- my extreme poverty

- the extent of my mental health issues. I’d be fine with them knowing about the diagnoses, like CPTSD, but I wouldn’t want them to know about all the symptoms until I was comfortable with them

My emotional vulnerability - meaning that I have the social intelligence and naïveté of a 14-year-old girl, at best.

That I can orgasm with my mind. It's not a party trick.

That I can have meltdowns over "nothing" -- too much sunshine, a squeaky shoe, the smell of cocoa.

I would never say that I used to be a victim of child abuse, bullying, and verbal assault.

I’ve never been with someone who actually cared about me.

I don't have the same "love language" as anyone I've ever met.

I won't understand theirs, and they likely won't understand mine.

“I wish you were someone else.”

I'll always love someone else. Hope that's OK.

"This is my first date.  Ever."

"I think your cats are just as cute and precious as everybody else's cats."

"No, I do not want to read your rambling, emo-laden, freeverse poetry."

"I have no arrest warrants in this state."

"The Smith & Wesson .45 magnum revolver is good, but I would rather have a Browning 9mm with a full clip."

"The FBI's Witness Protection Program never offers as much protection as it should."

"This is MY dessert!  Order your own!"

"Even a McDonalds' Happy Meal is better than prison food."

"My therapist said, . . . <anything>"

"I find it interesting that your background check says, . . . <anything>"

"I would never raise or support some other man's kids."

My husband was only useful for carrying my liquids.

I crush on practically everyone.
Especially if they're from Estonia.

I crush on unicorns.

Practically every item of clothing I own is second hand.

I have one pair of underwear and one handbag.

I don't wear underwear unless I'm going to a doctor appointment.

I don't wear bras unless it's summer and I'm forced to go outside in daylight.