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17 Oct 2023, 10:16 am

Why do some women even bother going to bars/nightclubs for a girls night out knowing they will most likely get unwantedly hit on by men?

Yeah there will be loads of ladies who go out looking for a hookup but some just want to be with friends.



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17 Oct 2023, 10:17 am

Because they want to have fun.


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17 Oct 2023, 10:17 am

:lol:

You're funny Jamesy

*gets popcorn*


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17 Oct 2023, 10:18 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Because they want to have fun.



That comes at a compromise though if they get harassed during the night Of course they have security to back them up.

I don't quite understand why men are more attracted to women than vice versa?



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17 Oct 2023, 10:20 am

People can’t just stop living life because of the what ifs.

Would YOU stay at home if you were a woman?


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17 Oct 2023, 10:21 am

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People can’t just stop living life because of the what ifs.

Would YOU stay at home if you were a woman?



My mom once said that club mangers/security do not want men in nightclubs which does not really make much sense :?



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17 Oct 2023, 10:22 am

It doesn’t make sense because it’s not true.


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17 Oct 2023, 10:25 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
People can’t just stop living life because of the what ifs.

Would YOU stay at home if you were a woman?


I would be put of going out if I knew I was going to be sexually harassed.



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17 Oct 2023, 10:27 am

But women don’t know when or if it will happen.

I was sexually harassed while walking my dog once and when I was at a friend’s house - a variety of harmless places and situations.


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17 Oct 2023, 10:28 am

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But women don’t know when or if it will happen.

I was sexually harassed while walking my dog once.



Well the chances are much higher it will happen in a club/bar with testosterone alcohol fueled men.

When I was 17 there was a woman I really fancied in a college class. After a lesson I talked to her and while we both walked she went into the girls toilet/restroom.



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17 Oct 2023, 10:31 am

Women don’t need to limit their enjoyment. Men need to learn how to behave themselves.* :ninja:

*Does not apply to ALL men, just the as*holes.


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17 Oct 2023, 10:32 am

Jamesy wrote:
When I was 17 there was a woman I really fancied in a college class. After a lesson I talked to her and while we both walked she went into the girls toilet/restroom.

What?


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17 Oct 2023, 10:32 am

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Women don’t need to limit their enjoyment. Men need to learn how to behave themselves.* :ninja:

*Does not apply to ALL men, just the as*holes.



I am probably more the creepy category than an as*hole.



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17 Oct 2023, 10:33 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
When I was 17 there was a woman I really fancied in a college class. After a lesson I talked to her and while we both walked she went into the girls toilet/restroom.

What?



Well I am guessing she was avoiding me. Is college an inappropriate place to try and chase after someone you like?



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17 Oct 2023, 10:33 am

Jamesy wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
Women don’t need to limit their enjoyment. Men need to learn how to behave themselves.* :ninja:

*Does not apply to ALL men, just the as*holes.

I am probably more the creepy category than an as*hole.

It doesn’t need to be a permanent situation.


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17 Oct 2023, 10:34 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
TwilightPrincess wrote:
Women don’t need to limit their enjoyment. Men need to learn how to behave themselves.* :ninja:

*Does not apply to ALL men, just the as*holes.

I am probably more the creepy category than an as*hole.

It doesn’t need to be a permanent situation.



Well I am not going to the pub thus weekend which is a good start.

True its not permanent but sometimes it's difficult to get back your reputation.