The mum/wife/daughter dilemma. I have no one else to talk to about this.
So we were going to move house in 2024, but our daughter wants to take a one year business course at her college. It is free if she starts when she's under 19; she knows the staff and the college, and they know her; she doesn't want to go to the university where we'll be moving to; the course will set her up for a job or starting her own business.
We were going to move in 2024 back to my home area to be closer to my mother who has dementia, plus my husband and I love the area and can't wait to move back there.
So, what was I to do? Support my daughter or my mother or follow my own dreams? I was torn in two directions, between a rock and a hard place.
I chose to stay here with my daughter because she has her whole life ahead and I can't stand in her way. Plus I love her much more.
Apparently most people have loving, caring mums they adore? Mine has never been like that but she is in a terrible state and needs someone there to support her. But unless I move closer to her, I can't be that person.
So the choice was made, but I'm heartbroken that I can't move home again. I hate where I live, I've been here 23 years. But now another year to go. Plodding along.
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That alien woman. On Earth to observe and wonder about homo sapiens.