Wearing shoe lifts socially?

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Do you think I should start to wear shoe lifts in social situation's since I might get treated better by others?

I am about 5ft8 and wearing lifts I think would boost me up to approximatley 5ft11

Okay, I'll bite.

Here's a thought experiment for you. Think of someone you don't like. A real person you know who just gives you the creeps for some reason.

Now imagine them three inches taller.

Does that change how you feel about them in the slightest?

I'm not trying to be mean, but the answer to your question is the same answer you get to all your questions, sooner or later. It's not your appearance. It's you and the people and places you hang around.

I'm sorry, but I think wearing shoe lifts would make no difference whatsoever to how people treat you.
It could even make you a potential laughing stock.

You do seem rather obsessed with height.
I'm 5ft 7.
Shorter than you.
Are you going to treat me any differently now you know that?

I think your insecurities will make you 'small' even if you gained a half-a-foot over night.

I haven't tried it, but the attractive social butterflies around me often use insoles. The cosers make it a part of their lives. In my opinion, this is already a part of social interaction, just like makeup, although I don't like it very much.

I think you could be seven feet tall, and you'd still be you.

The way people respond to you is a matter of your attitude, not your altitude.