Hector wrote:
I'm at the very least sympathetic to someone who considers the possibility of having a relationship with every other girl he meets, and I'm not sure if I agree with the "you won't find a girlfriend if you look for one" dictum (since that appears to contradict "put yourself out there"), but I find at least with me there's a danger of that becoming obsessive so it should be kept at bay.
Agreed, in fact always being prepared to go in for the kill is the best strategy, people on here often need to be less picky. But one does need to want to make their partner
happy too, otherwise they are not going to get far.