Greentea wrote:
Merle, in the last 3 years I was fired from 3 very good, semi-career jobs. None of my colleagues were fired in any of the three companies. I was a very rare exception. So they had to despise me exceptionally much to fire me, in all 3. I was either fired or pushed to leave from almost all jobs I had before that too. In this last job, I had been alert and doing everything as perfectly as I could all the time. I can't think of ONE reason why they so wanted rid of me. The big boss told me today that he'd been wanting to fire me for many months, and I know it's true. I posted a thread about a year ago where I said I thought they were firing me. I was right, he confirmed it today.
Same with friends, out of the blue they'll decide to cut contact and never tell me why.
Same with my family - one day 6 years ago they all got together and decided to get rid of me. No reasons given. I have no family of any kind.
Why does everyone need rid of me so badly?
We don't. I'm sure I speak as one of many people on the forum who feel the exact opposite.
I understand, friends used to do that to me too. Twice in my life, I've had my best closest friend (of that particular time), turn around one day and, completely out of the blue, tell me they hate me.
Recently had another friendship group suddenly cut contact with me, and I have no idea why. But whatever, I'm used to it and I keep friendship groups in reserve (call me callous, but I try to get into as many friendship groups as I can - improves my chances).
It sucks. And it sucks that you lost your job. Have you ever considered working for yourself? I think it might be the best option for people like us - that way our income relies solely on our individual talent and skills, and not NT politics.
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Into the dark...
02 May 2009, 5:13 am
