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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Creepy male Roosh V equates pixie cuts on women to self-harm |
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Posted: 01 May 2015, 10:02 pm
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Replies: 30
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| The only way my short hair harms me is the need to have it cut more often. I don't really understand what this guy means by that? :| i think basically: 1. Women exist to please men and get pregnant. 2. Women with short hair are displeasing to men and won't get pregnant. 3. Failure to actualize gend... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 01 May 2015, 2:10 am
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Replies: 32
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| OP, you're clearly obsessing to an unhealthy degree over a man who is not currently (and may never be) interested in you in terms of a romantic relationship. You don't even seem to share core values. The way that he sees sexuality and the way that you don't see it, do not match up. The woman who he... |
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Forum: Getting to know each other Topic: Questions about you |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 9:21 pm
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| What is your first name?: Chris Age: 22 Location: Usually the Northeastern USA, but sometimes other places Hobbies and Interests: Philosophy, Literature, History, Music, Art, Radical Politics, Queer Culture, Religion, Anthropology (Really, just the Humanities as a whole) Why are you here?: Diagnosed... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Lack of General Awareness of One's Body |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 8:51 pm
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| I'm not talking just about proprioceptive or other sensory issues. I mean more like awareness of my objective body. Like not realizing that I have certain congenital marks on my body until they're pointed out to me or I suddenly notice them. Or getting scratches and stuff and suddenly noticing them ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 26 Apr 2015, 4:52 pm
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Replies: 32
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| Emotional intimacy. Using sex as a shortcut to intimacy is a good way to get way too invested in a person without actually knowing them well, IMO. It's not about using sex as a shortcut to intimacy, though. For me, it's about letting whatever happens happen, as long as it's consensual. I don't go i... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2015, 10:36 pm
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| I expect they do activities together and enjoy each other's company, perhaps? Just as sex isn't always about love, dating isn't only about sex. I understand dating isn't only about sex, but it seems like a certain degree of intimacy is necessary. I guess I find it difficult to understand how one li... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 25 Apr 2015, 2:36 pm
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| This isn't a criticism, but I really don't understand what abstinent people do on dates. Do they kiss? Are hand jobs out of the question? Do you just stay on opposite sides of the couch while watching a movie? :/ |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Masculinty |
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Posted: 24 Apr 2015, 3:38 pm
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Replies: 311
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| I hate the fact that girls only like guys who stick to "masculinity", it makes me wanna kill myself... If it makes you feel any better, I'm about as far from masculine as it gets, and I've met plenty of women who wanted to sleep with me. I rarely sleep with cis women (usually when I do, t... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 11:49 pm
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| 3. Not usually, although plenty of FWBs end up dating and maybe get married eventually. What do you mean by "plenty?" So are my fears that the woman my crush has been "seeing" since before I met him will marry him legit? (most people on that thread, as well as a counselor I used... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Toxic Masculinty |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 11:34 pm
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Replies: 311
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| I hate the fact that girls only like guys who stick to "masculinity", it makes me wanna kill myself... If it makes you feel any better, I'm about as far from masculine as it gets, and I've met plenty of women who wanted to sleep with me. I rarely sleep with cis women (usually when I do, t... |
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Forum: LGBT Discussion Topic: Resources for Parents |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 10:03 pm
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| Can anybody recommend any good resources to give to parents after or during the coming out process? I've been trying to get my mom to understand my queer sexuality and gender for a few months now, and there are a lot of things it's difficult to have a conversation about. It's really difficult for me... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 32
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| I always thought sex required emotion. And how do casual sex partners and FWBs end it after a while? What if one or the other ends up in a long-term relationship with someone else? And there's a difference between sleeping with someone and having sex with them. (Ever been in a hotel room with more ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Creepy male Roosh V equates pixie cuts on women to self-harm |
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Posted: 23 Apr 2015, 2:05 pm
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Replies: 30
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| If this guy is a pick up artist, does it help that is has publically creeped out all women? I can't imagine any woman wanting to come near him without police protection now. If only all the single men who grovel at his feet would realize that. But when they elicit that reaction in their own lives, ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Creepy male Roosh V equates pixie cuts on women to self-harm |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 1:10 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 242
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| If this guy is a pick up artist, does it help that is has publically creeped out all women? I can't imagine any woman wanting to come near him without police protection now. If only all the single men who grovel at his feet would realize that. But when they elicit that reaction in their own lives, ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Psychology of casual sex |
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Posted: 22 Apr 2015, 1:00 pm
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Replies: 32
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| There are really two kinds of sex: casual sex and romantic sex with someone you love. I've experienced both, and they are very different. Some people prefer one over the other for many different reasons. Casual sex is between people who don't have romantic feelings for each other, and usually who d... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Creepy male Roosh V equates pixie cuts on women to self-harm |
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Posted: 21 Apr 2015, 11:41 pm
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Replies: 30
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| Say what you will about this guy, he's far less "creepy" (unattractive) than a good portion of this site's userbase. He has an entire business/practice focused on it. Also, from the type of chicks I see with pixie cuts, I myself have had similar thoughts and observations. Well, he's about... |
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