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Forum: The Haven Topic: Rants |
| yogiB1 |
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Posted: 03 Sep 2022, 3:19 pm
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Replies: 9,252
Views: 641,516
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| Haven’t been here in a long long time. I feel too many feelings all at the same time and it’s exhausting. |
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: PTSD/CPTSD |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2021, 9:01 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 1,172
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| I would like to share something that I need some advise and perspective on. If you don’t want to read the whole thing you can skip down to the second to last paragraph. I know some of us ND people tend to want to diagnose everything about ourselves. This for me kind of hit me out of nowhere and has ... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: It’s been a while |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2021, 9:25 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 188
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| You're certainly smarter than the average bear..... You've accomplished quite a lot, actually.... Thank you. I’m in total terror though. I can’t help but remember you, I see you decided to change your profile picture. From what I remember last, I remember you used to look like a doctor in your pict... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: It’s been a while |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2021, 9:21 pm
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Replies: 5
Views: 188
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| Thank you guys it’s good to have a safe place |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: It’s been a while |
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Posted: 17 Feb 2021, 9:29 am
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Replies: 5
Views: 188
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| Hey everyone, it’s been a long time since I’ve been on here. I’m glad to be back! Since my last visit on here, I’ve gotten a divorce, moved across the country, and now live alone. I’m trying to get more friends and it’s so hard to connect with people especially in a city I’ve never lived in. I just ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Feeling insecure and being compared to his ex |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2019, 7:48 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 107
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| Have you sat down and told him that you're stressed and that you need to feel loved in order to feel like having sex? Both are perfectly valid feelings to have. Have you given him some examples of the kinds of things that would help you? "I know you love me, and I love you, but I'm stressing b... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Feeling insecure and being compared to his ex |
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Posted: 11 Jul 2019, 6:11 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 107
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| He was way out of line with that, I'm fuming just reading about it. You don't owe him sex and he is wrong to deliberately make you feel bad about it. Does he do this kind of thing in other contexts, or just with sex? Thank you for your reassurance. Yeah I woke up this morning still mad about it, I ... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Feeling insecure and being compared to his ex |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2019, 8:32 pm
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Replies: 8
Views: 107
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| This is a mopey post and I wanted to post it in the haven but it’s about sex so I’m sure it would get moved here anyway.. So I was just talking to my husband about what we wanted to do for the rest of the evening. I mentioned reading and sleeping because I’m tired and had a really stressful day, and... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Why downvotes hurt |
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Posted: 24 Jun 2019, 5:10 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 566
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| “Nobody truly interesting is universally liked.” So what if people downvote you? Surely you don’t like every single person on the face of the planet right? You’re entitled to your opinion and they’re entitled to theirs. I think that all people of influence, good character, power, etc will always hav... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: huggers |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2019, 9:06 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 243
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| I don’t like hugging either, unless it’s with my husband. Not a fan of even hugging family. What I really can’t stand is when people are talking and they’re trying to make a point, say something funny, or a surprising statement like “I can’t believe I just did that!!” and grab your arm or shoulder a... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Nicotine Vaping |
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Posted: 20 Jun 2019, 5:41 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 255
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| I vape all day long. Not proud of it, but it definitely helped me stop smoking for good. I’ve been vaping for at least 5 years straight and I really want to stop because I don’t like being a slave to some stupid chemical. I am addicted to nicotine, but I think not stopping is attributed to being the... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Pretty terrified |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2019, 10:02 pm
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Replies: 7
Views: 258
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| Thanks, it really does suck feeling this way. It's all I think about now. We are going to Madrid and Barcelona. I'm not anti-Spain, I look forward to experiencing it when I get there. It's just not the top of the list of placed I want to go before others. And yes as I stated, I've flown before and a... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Pretty terrified |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2019, 9:45 pm
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Replies: 7
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| So, my in-laws are taking the whole family (6 of us) to Spain in a few weeks. Spain isn't on the top of my list of places I want to travel first, so it's not very exciting to me. I don't think the excitement can outweigh the fear. Plus, the people I'm traveling with are constant arguers so it's not ... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What Meyers-Briggs Type Are You? |
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Posted: 19 Feb 2019, 8:59 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 798
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| I've taken it several times and I end up with INTJ/ISTJ with the S/N borderline. |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Best Jobs/Careers For Aspies |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 1:19 pm
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Replies: 13
Views: 1,410
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| Accounting - normally a quiet working environment, using black and white strategies, finding the bottom line. I love accounting. |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: What do your meltdowns look like? |
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Posted: 15 Feb 2019, 1:15 pm
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Replies: 17
Views: 527
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| Most of the time I can tell it'll be a meltdown day when I wake up. I notice that I cannot handle my clothes touching me, and I change 15 times until I basically leave the house in pajamas because it's the most non-intrusive outfit I have. Mostly I will cry uncontrollably for an extended period of t... |
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