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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Didnt date in HS/College feel unprepared for dating as adult |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 7:39 pm
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Replies: 30
Views: 2,255
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| seriously, there are times I feel like punching a random guys lights out for telling me to grow a pair, grow some balls, man up. You are 27 and live with your parents. You've never been on a date or kissed a girl... and yet claim to have had "horrible" experiences with women. (If you've n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got Tinder... |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 7:16 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,622
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| i dont' get this. I'm 6'4" and I'm single for life. by that logic I should be crawling with women. when women ask how tall I am and I say it usually get the "dam thats tall" but for some I never hear more from them. . perhaps they dont' like tall guys either just ones slightly taller... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To not look as good as Brad Pitt |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 4:27 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,526
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| I'm not very attractive or good with social skills which is why i'm afraid of using Tinder because its highly superficial. I got it but i'm afraid of talking to my matches because once they see me for who I really am, then they won't like me. It's not like i'm terrible looking but someone is not go... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To not look as good as Brad Pitt |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 4:10 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,526
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| Ummmm, not really. If you're worried you might possibly be among the bottom 5%, I'd suggest you: 1) post a pic at hotornot.com, so a wide swath of the internet who doesn't know you personally can weigh in. (Not knowing you personally is important, as they'll evaluate you on pure aesthetics). 2) Pos... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Sexual favors in exchange for gift ? |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 4:00 pm
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Replies: 33
Views: 2,221
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| The offer of a sexual favor for a present is just gross. And would set a bad precedent. You don't wanna go there. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To not look as good as Brad Pitt |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 2:53 pm
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,526
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| and the ones in the bottom 5% of looks get given a wide berth because of their looks. It's not right, it's not wrong, it just kind of is. Can you give us some visual examples of those? Random pics of people you think fall into that "bottom 5% of looks" category? Ummmm, not really. If you'... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I like it when mediocre girls (with plump bodies) like me |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 2:42 pm
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Replies: 82
Views: 4,519
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| I don't mean to sound dumb but I have a nice body and I think I'm goodlooking but there's something about having been hit on by the girls mentioned above that I like, It's like they look up to me while being in a relationship and it feels good for me, do you feel the same? It suggests you're both v... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Will She Buy YOU Dinner? |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 19 Jul 2015, 6:22 am
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Replies: 86
Views: 3,977
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| Also, I don't think it's shallow to want to be with a man who has a job and has a job that supports him even if it wouldn't support two people. I wouldn't think it was shallow if a man wanted that in a woman either, but man guys are fine with women being housewives, although most of us don't want t... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: Financial Worries and Job Searches |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2015, 11:38 am
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Replies: 4
Views: 557
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| If you fail in your quest to get a job, you should sell the car you can't afford. There are always part-time jobs available for teens -- if the "usual" places (fast food, local pools, etc) aren't hiring, there's always babysitting, mothers helper-ing, approaching neighbors to see if they n... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: First out of the door during layoffs??? |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2015, 11:30 am
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Replies: 8
Views: 693
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| So have you found during your career that you're invariably the first to be pink-slipped, chopped, given severance, etc etc, everytime your organization had to "right-size" the workforce?? I've found this has been mostly the case for me - but can also say there was a point when I was so i... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: To not look as good as Brad Pitt |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2015, 11:22 am
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Replies: 28
Views: 3,526
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| How does it feel for you guys to know that you will never have the same attractiveness as brad pitt-looking guys? That you can never get a girl's heart beat flips at the sight of you? Is it not depressing that you can not just squint your eyes and then you will get the women to the bed? Now you wil... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: It's probably false hope but looking for advice. (NTs too?) |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 18 Jul 2015, 11:00 am
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Replies: 2
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| - 1. Have you been in a situation where a person has left you but was confused? - 2. If so, did they ask you if you both could give it another go? - 3. If not, were they receptive to a suggestion from you? 1. Yes. He literally went incommunicado one day. For six months. Six. Months. I was heartbrok... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got Tinder... |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 8:16 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,622
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| So I got tinder a week ago and at first I wasn't getting any matches. So I then changed my profile picture and I got about 10 matches. The problem is that i'm too scared to talk to any of my matches. This one girl initiated the conversation with me but I stopped talking to her because I was just to... |
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Forum: Work and finding a Job Topic: I'm struggling with my job. Help. |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 8:07 pm
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Replies: 6
Views: 986
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| Working retail as a teen was the hardest, most exhausting, most awful job ever. Followed very closely by being a secretary. I think pretty much all menial jobs are horrible (or, rather, are for me because I'm really really not a people person). However, my crappy jobs at 17, 18 and 19 provided me wi... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Unable to Read and Understand Your Own Romantic Feelings |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 10:55 am
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Replies: 6
Views: 1,769
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| Aspie1 - You sound like a jerk. You magnanimously agreed to an exclusive, long-term relationship with a girl in college despite finding her totally unattractive. You are looking for advice on whether you should just suck it up and date girls you aren't attracted to (note: you make no mention of how ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Why is "Ghosting" Socially Acceptable? |
| CateJayne |
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Posted: 16 Jul 2015, 10:46 am
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Replies: 205
Views: 21,310
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| I think the people who do that are soulless creatures from the depths of hell. They are selfish, lack empathy, and are possible sociopaths. It's cruel. How can someone date a person and then act like they don't know them. They are NOT worth the time. Those are the same people that end up abandoning... |
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