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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of being alive |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 28 Jul 2015, 3:12 am
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Replies: 40
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| Wish I could say I was perfectly OK, but I can't. I'm still horribly depressed. A lot of his complaints with my have to do with my being an Aspie...he says I'm cold, didn't want sex enough (well what happened is the "honeymoon period' was over and instead of trying to fix things and be more rom... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of being alive |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 14 Jul 2015, 2:39 pm
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Replies: 40
Views: 1,829
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I have them tonight, and then again Thursday night. Next weekend as*hole has them but I will be taking them to the anime convention on Sunday (he's taking them on Sat.).
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Forum: Bipolar, Tourettes, Schizophrenia, and other Psychological Conditions Topic: Abilify / Aripiprazole to improve anxiety and socializing? |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2015, 9:06 pm
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Replies: 16
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I just started taking Abilify for the same reason, and also mood stabilization. It's still too early to tell if it's doing anything. We shall see...
Kate |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of being alive |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2015, 9:01 pm
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Replies: 40
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That's what my therapist says. If he finds someone else, don't envy her. Pity her.
I'm back to being depressed and crying now that I don't have my kids. I hate this.
Kate |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Posting this at the ER, on my phone. |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 13 Jul 2015, 8:58 pm
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Replies: 21
Views: 1,197
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Glad you're still here. Hope you start feeling better soon.
Kate |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Am I too broken? |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 11:35 pm
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Replies: 13
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| I'm the same way. My soon to be ex husband filed for divorce in September of last year and we separated in November. I don't think I'll ever be entirely over him. I know he's not good for me. He treated me like crap, but I loved him. He's moving on, posting on facebook about how he's so ready to dat... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: So I got Tinder... |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 12 Jul 2015, 4:02 pm
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Replies: 16
Views: 2,400
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| There are women out there for whom it won't be a deal breaker, even if her preference is tall men. I won't lie, I like tall men, but if someone were shorter than me (I'm 5'4") it wouldn't bother me at all if he was a great person. Especially when you've been in a bad relationship like I have, s... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of being alive |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2015, 8:16 pm
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Replies: 40
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| I agree that I need to stop caring about him and get the hell away from him as much as possible. I always feel better when I don't have contact with him. We have 3 kids so I will probably always have to communicate with him on a limited basis. But he is toxic and I need to limit my contact to the ki... |
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Forum: General Autism Discussion Topic: Myer Briggs types that don't sound autistic at all? |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 10 Jul 2015, 1:10 pm
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Replies: 11
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INTJ, consistently. Pretty stereotypical  |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Consequences of abuse on asperger |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2015, 11:28 pm
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Replies: 9
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| My husband is an expert on using guilt to get what he wants. He never told me I "couldn't" do things but like your ex, made me feel bad if I did something he didn't "approve of". Now he's trying to get me to pay him alimony and trying his best to convince me I'm a horrible person... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of being alive |
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Posted: 09 Jul 2015, 11:08 pm
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Replies: 40
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| Yes. I actually have a very good lawyer who has 30+ years of experience. He is appalled at the way my soon to be ex is unabashedly seeking money, and tells me that in my state and especially my county, judges don't like men who refuse to work if they are able to. He won't even work in the summer whe... |
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Consequences of abuse on asperger |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2015, 11:50 pm
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Replies: 9
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I was abused as a kid too, and I have C-PTSD, depression and Aspergers. It made me put up with a lot more from my soon to be ex than I should have. I didn't even recognize his emotional abuse as abuse because he wasn't hitting me.
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Forum: The Haven Topic: Tired of being alive |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2015, 11:23 pm
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Replies: 40
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| I suggested at one point that we make an account on this site I found for co-parenting where the only thing that gets discussed is the kids and everything is recorded. When I suggested that, he retaliated by blocking me on Facebook. He knew it would hurt me. I don't know why he was so offended by th... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Tired of being called uncaring--of people being tired of me |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2015, 8:33 pm
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Replies: 22
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| I really, really, really hate this. I am also "high functioning", have education, a good job, etc. My soon to be ex husband (NT) always says I am "cold" and have always "denied him intimacy". I don't think that's true, but maybe I just don't see it. I do care, a lot, bu... |
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Forum: Social Skills and Making Friends Topic: Trouble making new friends |
| IceKitty |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2015, 8:18 pm
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Replies: 0
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| I'm going through a divorce and one of the things that bothers me is that my NT husband (soon to be ex-husband) has made quite a few friends where we live and he goes out with them frequently. He gets invited to parties, but he never took me even when I was living with him. I have no one except my k... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: Aspergers, domestic violence, depression, and divorce |
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Posted: 08 Jul 2015, 8:09 pm
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Replies: 45
Views: 365
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| My soon to be ex is also verbally abusive. I really didn't want a divorce but it wasn't until I moved out and wasn't experiencing it all the time that I recognized his behavior as abuse. He tells me that I'm a bad person. He says that because I don't express a lot of emotion when he gives me a gift ... |
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