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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with depression over always being single. |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 23 Feb 2026, 9:29 am
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Replies: 25
Views: 7,553
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| If having a relationship is your number one goal in life, you should give more consideration to what women your age tend to want/expect from a prospective partner in the context of a romantic relationship. It seems like you're only focusing on your own needs and desires rather than focusing on what ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with depression over always being single. |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2026, 6:30 pm
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Replies: 25
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| As far as why someone would want to date me. Well, I cannot think of a single reason a person would not want to date me. It seems you didn't read my first response at all then. If that's the best answer you have to the question of why someone would want to date you, frankly, that's bad news for you... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with depression over always being single. |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 22 Feb 2026, 1:55 pm
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| The point is, what do you have going for you that would make a woman want to choose dating you over dating other men she could date or being single? From her perspective, why is her life better for having you in it than not? If you can't answer that question, that's a big problem and something you s... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Struggling with depression over always being single. |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 21 Feb 2026, 2:37 pm
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Replies: 25
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| I know you've said you're not a very competitive guy, but the reality is that the dating market is competitive. If women are able to attract what they perceive to be more desirable options as prospective romantic partners than you, it would be illogical for them to settle for you. You're not financi... |
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Forum: Parents' Discussion Topic: Should people with disabilities have children? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 20 Feb 2026, 7:28 pm
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Replies: 22
Views: 4,399
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| I don't think it's responsible to have children unless a couple is prepared cognitively, emotionally and financially to invest as much as is needed in the child's upbringing, give the child a good childhood, and provide scaffolding, guidance and mentorship in order for that child to have solid groun... |
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Forum: Adult Autism Issues Topic: St Louis Missouri- seeking medically assisted death. |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 13 Feb 2026, 4:31 am
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Replies: 13
Views: 149
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| I hope you give this question serious thought: Can you imagine any remotely possible hypothetical scenario or set of circumstances where the value proposition of life is coherent to you? If so, what is the bare minimum that would need to be different about your current circumstances for that to be t... |
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Forum: Art, Writing, and Music Topic: Songs about stalkers |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 02 Jan 2026, 10:22 pm
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Replies: 38
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I doubt there are any songs out there that are more overtly about stalking than this one.
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Forum: WrongPlanet.net discussion Topic: MODERATOR ATTENTION: How to get help when you need it |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 01 Jan 2026, 10:47 pm
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Replies: 1,356
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| More Temu spam in General Discussion. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No idea how to date & no experience, any advice would be gre |
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Posted: 27 Dec 2025, 2:06 am
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Replies: 27
Views: 1,170
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| So you are capable of working. You're just not working at the moment. That's something you can fix. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Realistic Advice Needed |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 26 Dec 2025, 9:43 pm
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Replies: 5
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| Did you read my comment? It says dating apps like those owned by Match Group are actually a bad idea for you. You're better off establishing a regular presence in a group or groups that pertain to your hobbies and interests, and hoping to meet someone that way. |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: What is Christmas like for married couples with children? |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 25 Dec 2025, 5:59 pm
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Replies: 11
Views: 520
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| Are you sure having children is a good idea? Not trying to be rude, but you seem to be quite dependent on other people in a way parents shouldn't be. Parents should be able to guide their children towards independence and adult success in life, and it seems like you haven't even really achieved thos... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No idea how to date & no experience, any advice would be gre |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2025, 7:23 pm
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Replies: 27
Views: 1,170
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| I've never met any woman who is ranking her options in this way, picking out the one with the best stats. That women look at material circumstances first and the person second is an old staple of sexism. It's never been particularly credible on an intellectual level, in my opinion. It's certainly n... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: Realistic Advice Needed |
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Posted: 21 Dec 2025, 12:16 am
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Replies: 5
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| ChatGPT input: "How would a 40 year-old heterosexual man on the autism spectrum with no social skills, no employment, no education, no driver's license and no dating experience or history of having a romantic partner, be able to start dating? Hobbies and interests include I love camping I love ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: No idea how to date & no experience, any advice would be gre |
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Posted: 19 Dec 2025, 9:50 pm
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Replies: 27
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| I have to find somebody exactly like myself or just give up? What in God's name kind of advice is that that's like the worst advice you could ever give somebody The reason for that advice is that women who are employed, educated, have social skills and are doing materially well for themselves have ... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am looking for advice on friendships and relationships. |
| The Grand Inquisitor |
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Posted: 18 Dec 2025, 4:18 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 361
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| As someone who is experiencing something similar in terms of a long-term unmet longing for romantic love, I don't understand how some therapist arguing with you about whether you should even want a relationship in the first place is helpful in any way. To me, that would feel invalidating and unprodu... |
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Forum: Love and Dating Topic: I am looking for advice on friendships and relationships. |
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Posted: 17 Dec 2025, 9:10 am
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Replies: 7
Views: 361
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| This is usually the point in therapy where my therapist tries to talk me out of wanting to be in a relationship. They say I should be happy with what I have and that. This is a major red flag that your therapist isn't a good fit for your needs. If you're otherwise content with life and are only see... |
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